like a cauterising truth, or a sigh

[captain_loogie]

Alright. Now I'll admit that some of the following spiel will have been precipitated by day after effects... but at the same time this really does plague me. I may just be a little more emotionally lubricated

Comments

[roomy]

hunny, you don't need to change at all. In the words of the supremes, you can't hurry love, you just have to wait.

[motorcyclepanda]

sifting through my mind all of the things that I want to say to you right now...seems pessimistic because I know that my words wont make a difference. I could say that if you like who you are that should be enough or 'hey my opinion may be a little different considering I was the one you went out with'.

The frustrating thing is that girls (and guys) who are out friends and aquaintences have a habit of having fuckwits for lovers - and here you are amazing, hilarious, intelligent and loving. I don't know what my gender wants and I'm not going to speak on its behalf - maybe they're attracted to less emotionally stable and less likely to love you types - and there is a hell of a lot of them in perth (oh, except for traction jackson. of course)

I wish there was something that I could say. other than. fuck, I was attracted to you, the idea of other people being attracted to you isn't an alien idea for me.

gar. I don't knwo what else to say that wont sound cheesey

[dediki_jane]

i think you can't say that everyone does one thing that works, and those it doesn't work for aren't doing something right. it's more complicated than that

[rennier]

well, i think you might have more of a chance meeting girls now that your husband is leaving. I'm sure they won't generally go up to guys who they think are gay. Or maybe you should get some less attractive friends so you look better by comparison. You know, coz I'm such a hottie and all. Or maybe you should go out more by yourself. People can get intimidated by a big group of friends. I'm not the one to talk to about this though coz I would have no idea about girls or relationships. i'm just bored. Let's do something now.

[mezzomaniac]

I hear ya.

I figure that there's a lot of luck involved in finding partners (for the short or long term), so I'm not particularly worried - there's still plenty of time for long term relationships to begin (obviously), but yes of course sooner would be nicer. I could be trying harder though.

I heartily wish you luck!