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[captjessi]

Colin has his own life.  I don't attend his Buddhist things because I usually have homework.  He goes out drinking with his friends most nights while I stay at home (again, school).  For the brief times we've been awake together over the last few days, he's in the kitchen cooking, so I can't really talk to him then

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[p0rcelain_girl]

I have always always ALWAYS been this way. And then it pisses me the hell off when I realize I don't really have anything to be pissed about.

I've gotten a lot better about these things since having the girls (I guess I have a lot more emotional energy being devoted/diverted to them?), but I wish I had some advice on what to do about it otherwise.

[themadhatter99]

From someone who understand (if from the Male side), then all I can tell you is eventually you just learn to accept things. You reach a new level where it no longer bothers you and you actually love the person more for the things they do that define them that you're not involved in.

[lacipants]

You know that I can relate, entirely. I've just about decided that, as girls, and at this particular "stage" of love that we're going through, this is normal and expected. We're teetering on the edge of the first stage, that blissful, electrifying, seemingly immortal time that accompanies the first part of being with someone, and the next step, which is potentially forever onward, when the love matures and solidifies even more than we imagine, at which point being in love is essentially, for lack of a better term, validated. That's not to say love needs vaildation, but people usually do things like get married and start families, and the feeling of love will no longer be an independent and sometimes irrational force acting upon two young people, but becomes the foundation upon which your life is built and becomes, if nothing else, more reasonable. At the point you, or perhaps we, are at, the expectation lies on both sides of the fence and maybe that's where the tendencies toward being overly-sensitive and jealous toward irrational

[fatalshit]

Fuck, I think I'm a girl.

[raoulduke0921]

Hahahahaha. Priceless.