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[captlebubbles]

You really should have talked to me when I was having that breakdown, hon.

Because now I've had time to stew over the fact that you waited till I was having a breakdown to tell me that you needed space. That you ignored me just trying to find out what you needed. That you went off on my friend for trying to help. That you acted like that one,

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[wolfy_writing]

Ugh. Yeah, if they're not willing to meet you halfway, but will twist your words and let you stew in misery without even a word of comfort over how upset you are, it sounds like they're not actually a friend.

[captlebubbles]

They are. I know why they're keeping quiet, I really do, and I understand. I'm just miffed that they couldn't spare five seconds at the beginning and went off on my friend for trying to help.

But I really do understand. And I want to hear what they have to say.

And I don't want to lose them.

edit: I'm just having a bad feelings night, that's all.

[wolfy_writing]

Yeah, they're not showing any consideration for you during this incident. I may be biased, because I keep thinking "All this over a headcanon?" But they could easily have shown you some consideration and still taken the time they needed to be upset.

[captlebubbles]

A headcanon I was flippant and dismissive of, because I was afraid of making them feel as badly about their headcanon as they did when they told me how much they hated Tip (I rewrote MENT after that, because I lost my enthusiasm for him) or Jay (I rewrote his arc after that, because I wanted them to enjoy the story I was writing for them).

I think the part that hurts the most is that in their vaguepost putting words in my mouth they were like "think how it'd feel to get your own important headcanons belittled" and I'm like, well gosh, Ani, maybe it's like being really enthusiastic about this oc that my fic hinges on and then have you admit that you hate him and in one sentence suck all the fun out of writing him to the point that I rewrote an entire fic. Maybe it's excitedly talking about an oc that I just started working on and mentioning how his actions hurt his nephew and your only response is "stab him" and "intent doesn't change the harm caused

[wolfy_writing]

On a cheerier and less intense note, Brian Blessed once walked to the North Pole, and when a polar bear came nosing around, he punched it until it went away: http://www.cracked.com/article_24353_5-people-who-couldnt-be-killed-despite-their-best-efforts_p2.html

[captlebubbles]

We really need an Unseen University movie so he can play Ridcully.

[wolfy_writing]

HE WOULD BE SO PERFECT!!!!

[captlebubbles]

He's been my facecast for so long I keep forgetting he's never actually played him.