Actively seeking out people for get together with is not always a good thing. After a traumatic event, we regress and protect our selfs. This is something that is human nature, we don't want to get hurt, we don't want the pain. Unfortunately this happens all too often.
Ive always tried to remember after what happened to me, that pain helps me grow as a person. I don't want to seek pain out, but I have to use what has happened to me as an advantage. Ive learnt from my mistakes and taken the chance to improve myself, which takes time. Time I firmly believe should mostly be spent alone.
You know, I believe in what you just said, and agree. however, for myself, i'm a living oxymoron. a walking contradiction. I need time alone, I know this, but it's the time alone that drives me more into myself and scares the hell out of me. I don't like being alone. it's one of my fears.
it's very easy for a person to pretend that everything is hunky dory. however in actual fact, i'm a freaking mess inside.
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After a traumatic event, we regress and protect our selfs. This is something that is human nature, we don't want to get hurt, we don't want the pain. Unfortunately this happens all too often.
Ive always tried to remember after what happened to me, that pain helps me grow as a person. I don't want to seek pain out, but I have to use what has happened to me as an advantage. Ive learnt from my mistakes and taken the chance to improve myself, which takes time. Time I firmly believe should mostly be spent alone.
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I believe in what you just said, and agree. however, for myself, i'm a living oxymoron. a walking contradiction. I need time alone, I know this, but it's the time alone that drives me more into myself and scares the hell out of me. I don't like being alone. it's one of my fears.
it's very easy for a person to pretend that everything is hunky dory. however in actual fact, i'm a freaking mess inside.
but shhh
don't tell anyone.
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