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Things Girls Would Like in a Perfect Guy… The Smart Version
By: Sharisse and Kimberly
Any guy might have an idea about the mysterious mind happenings/expectations/dreams about any girl. Here's an idea, take it from us, there's an 87.9921% chance...ITS WRONG! Seeing that no guy could ever predict the mindset of a girl, every wonder, "why doesn't someone publish them?!" Of course, there's an oddball in every bunch, but the following is a list of the not so high expectations almost every girl...expects from her boyfriend. This is a list compiled by the smart kids, not a stupid high-maintenance Barbie.
(WE ASK YOU TO PLEASE TAKE NOTHING PERSONALLY. WE ARE JUDGING EVERY FACT ON A VERY VAST SCALE OF GUYS FROM OWN EXPERIENCE AND KNOWLEDGE. IT IS WELL KNOWN DIFFERENT TYPES OF GUYS EXIST, WHOM ACT DIFFERENTLY. DO NOT ATTEMPT TO ARGUE W/ US!)
1) Get over yourselves. WE KNOW YOU HAVE FEELINGS! Stop trying to be a macho man and invulnerable to pain and fear. YOU ARE NOT HOTT STUFF! Any girl you may be willing to date you may drool over you night and day, but no girl willing to fall in love with you is going to be that obsessed.
2) The large majority of us are modest. We are over ourselves, and never were under ourselves. Do not drool over us night and day! Despite what you may think, it is VERY NOTICABLE! Not only do you lose respect from other women, who find it disgustingly annoying, but also it is also extremely annoying if you have not popped the question and have become a tail to your crush. If she has already said no, BIG MISTAKE!!! STOP FOLLOWING HER EVERY SECOND YOU GET FREE! It's gotten old. There is a big exception to this however. If you know very well, mutually, that you were good friends, and still are good friends, you are fine.
3) We love compliments! Never neglect your girlfriend, but don't compliment us night and day, especially concerning things that don't need complimenting, and ESPECIALLY if you are only complimenting your crush, for example..."You chose a beautiful font on your book report"...or..."That's a really nice answer to the question, good one!"...and lastly..."If you ate 500 bigmacs, you'd still be skinny!" NO ONE WILL EVER BE SKINNY IF THEY ATE 500 BIGMACS, DONT JOKE ABOUT STUFF LIKE THAT, ITS STUPID, ESPECIALLY IF UR GIRLFRIENDS ALREADY FAT!
4) We appreciate your compliments, but to follow it up, if u do like someone on the chubby side...do not tell her she is skinny. We are not blind, we know we are not skinny! It will only make us feel bad. Be honest...BUT BY NO MEANS TELL HER SHE IS FAT...why are you taking about her weight anyhow?!
5) Skinny girls who think they are fat (god) like to be told they are skinny. It's just natural.
6) Although, a lot of us think pick up lines are hilarious, (I for one love them,) but it is not the best idea to actually USE them on a girl that you are interested in. We love them because they are so hilarious and cheesy, and we hate when guys actually think they can score with them. I MEAN, how would you feel if someone came up to you and was like, “Is that a 12 foot pipe in your pocket or are you just enjoying my company?” I mean, wouldn’t you just want to back away slowly?
7) Just ask the girl out. No one is going to be like… HAHAHAHA you’re such a loser why would I date you? The worst you can get is a “I think we’re better off friends.” After a while, if you don’t make a move, the potential girlfriend might think you’re over her and move on. ESPECIALLY if you know the girl likes you. If you are not sure a girl likes you, there are many different ways to go about this. First, the most admirable way is to tell her when you two are alone. This direct approach, however, may lead to possible tears and depression if she replies negatively. Another way is to send some mutual friend to find out whom she likes. This way, you can still know from a reliable source but not have to face her. She’ll probably suspect that you sent him or her over though, since most girls are intelligent in that way. The potential girlfriend often won’t make a move to ask you out because many still believe in the old tradition that guys should ask girls out. The odds of getting the girl to say yes is pretty high if you are remotely funny, smart, good looking, and clean. ((I’m serious, don’t find some rotting banana in you’re locker... it shows us how good of a boyfriend you would be. The more you take care of yourself, the more likely to take care of us.))
8) Don’t ask her out over the Internet though. Even on the phone is better, if you need a script in front of you or something. Face to face is preferable, however.
9) Subtlety is something most guys need to learn but will never quite understand. Don’t go up to someone and be like… WOW WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR FACE??? In result, the girl may turn around and stomp away. People have feelings, and these hurt emotions can be easily avoided. Instead of GEEZ THOSE PANTS MAKE YOU LOOK FAT, go “You look really good today. Those pants really don’t show off you’re awesome legs though!” Except like… more guyish. Go on, you try.
10) Don’t shop or groom more than us. It’s really quite weird when we hear that a boy spends 1 hour messing up his hair to look exactly perfect. OH, and don’t dye it, straighten it, curl it, or bleach it either. You probably got the hair you were born with because it looked good on you! Although there are few exceptions, this is pretty true. A few would that might scare you: RYAN SEACREST STRAIGHT IRONS HIS HAIR!
11) Believe it or not, there is a technique in hugging. Don’t hug too many people, otherwise it won’t be special. However, don’t neglect hugging people because almost every girl likes to be hugged. Don’t have a stiff hug… because it’s very uncomfortable for the receiving end. The perfect kind of hug is the one that you kind of feel protected in, where the person kind of covers you. If you don’t have that height advantage, then there are many different variations. Hug from behind etc. Arm on waist or shoulder works too!
12) Girls love guys. We look at your behavior patterns as enjoyment, and we make fun of u behind ur backs, but that doesn't mean we don't love u. Sometimes we say things that may seem awkward to u, but please, we are all ppl here. Don't be afraid of us, because we aren't afraid of u. Most importantly, girls like sensitive guys, but don't be over emotional. We just want to kno we'll be able to talk to u. We may not always understand u, but if u want that special someone u can hold in ur arms, and console, be a friend. I'm not saying to go and date ur best friend, I'm just saying, what every girl wants is a boyfriend who can be her best friend. Be nice be funny...and GOOD LUCK TO THE LOT OF U!
YAY FINISHED. We just thought this would be fun, and if you want to hate comment, go ahead, because I always enjoy reading those. I know most guys would rather burn their arm then do some of these, and to be honest, if I was a guy, I PROBABLY WOULD TOO!
As always, WE LOVE YOU!