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a QUIZ! Yes, one of thoooose quizzes
Snagged from unluckable
Three Names you go by:
1. Me
2. You
3. Her
Three Parts of Your Heritage:
1. the old part
2. the black part
3. the not black part
Three Things that Scare You:
1. depression
2. people who justify bullshit
3. nukes
Three of Your Everyday Essentials:
1. my boyfriend (think adoration, not objectification)
2. a hair tie
3. internet access
Three Things ( Read more... ) -
My Ideal Partner
So my ideal sex partner doesn't just have the mad skills to turn me into a quivering mass of "OHHH MY GOODDDD THAT FEEELS SOOOO GOOOOD ( Read more... ) -
what's better than men going down on other men...
Men going down on women.
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Watching men who love men
so i got home and was attempting to be productive, and of course, masturbation is high on my list of productivity ( Read more... ) -
no complaints posting rule is in effect.
i sure COULD complain. Things aren't totally how i'd like them right now, in some hella significant ways. But, all isn't lost, so i'm not going down that road ( Read more... ) -
AWESOME night!
Okay, maybe i seem like a totally bipolar puppet to mood swings right now, i was moping around lj and now i'm flaunting my jazzed-ness, but seriously, it's been a combination of getting out of a mood and lots of deliberate action to get myself in a different direction. i don't feel manic right now at all, just thoroughly pleased with my day ( Read more... ) -
things i'm looking forward to
Okay, i've been spending way too much time doing activities simply to avoid feeling bad, dwelling on my moods and survivor-hood, and not looking forward to much except NOT working. I kick my feet in the air when work is over for the day, but then spend the rest of the day either moping or trying to prevent myself from moping.
I really need to start ( Read more... ) -
values
Every so often I lose sight of my values. It's like my sense of self evaporates into whooshy air (whooshy! what a great word!) and so it's been really important to me lately to try to get a better grasp on a personal value system. I've been involving myself in a theology class to help with this, and was really pleased to see it addressed in DBT.
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Mindfulness: Single Object
I did a Mindfulness exercise that instructed me to focus on a single object for five minutes, to help train my focus and being "in the moment ( Read more... )