Today, I become...nothing....

[carter_so_lost]

Well, greetings and salutations outside world. I have a dilemma to present you all with. And I want honest opinions on this one. If you loved someone with all your heart and soul, and knew that they loved you too, but you and they were on a break so she could see if she likes another guy..how would you handle it. How long is too long to hang on and

Comments

karen

[anonymous]

You're a bigger man than I, I suppose (and we'll choose to leave out the fact that I'm not a man at all, for the sake of argument). See me, I've never been much for competition, so if someone else falls into the picture, comes into play, you can pretty much count on me jetting, doesn't matter how much I care for the person. With me, it's 1 or none... no grey area, no room for in between. I wish you all the luck, though, if you want to hang out and wait for her heart.

[castien]

if you love her that much, then you love her enough to let her go and let do her own thing. if she loves you in return, she will come back on her own accord. maybe not as soon as you'd like but she will return. i know you still have feelings for her but as long as she's gone you can't be missing her all the time like this, it's not healthy. while she's gone, you have to pretend like she ripped your heart out with a plastic spoon and left you bleeding on the steps of the church you were suppose to get married at, or something like that. when she returns, remember the truth, and you'll accept each other back like old friends. until she comes back though, do your own thing while she is doing hers. sure, you gave her your heart, but are you gonna let taht stop you from hanging out and having a good time with other people in your squad? go on casual outings with one of your classmates or a couple of them. if she wants to see other guys, you have just as much right to see other girls. you don't have to "hook up" with them or