I said something REALLY stupid to a friend...

[carviangli]

...And now I don't know how to fix it.

I thought it was her fault-but it was really mine. I'm just so emotional these days I got angry at her and was really cold to her(and then she came and said something back to me). And then I realized I was being a complete egotistical idiot and my problems were not her problems.

And now we aren't talking.

I saw

Comments

[silecet]

You could start by sending her a message to apologize and ask her if she wants to meet so you can talk...
These kind of situation is always difficult to deal with. I hope everything going to be fine!

[carviangli]

Luckily it wasn't too big a deal. I just grabbed her and apologized. I guess it was too small a thing for us to not talk again.

I just found it awkward because I ALWAYS avoid conflict.

[nomanymore]

You can call her or if she doesn't pick up, write a letter, if she doesn't want to read just send it by the post. well that's if only you really don't want to lose your friend; she'll feel it. Between friends, one should know how to tolerate someone's fault & to forgive. If she persists, &if it were me, I'll just let it go & don't care anymore, as she considers my defects/faults more important than myself as her friend, then she doesn't worth it..

Sorry for the long comment ^^;

[carviangli]

Luckily it wasn't such a big deal. I was trying to avoid her but I went up to a group of friends and she came wondering around as well(we both didn't know the other was there...I'm guessing she didn't know because she looked shocked at seeing me and went quiet) but I sort of grabbed her and pulled her to a corner and apologized. She was pretty nice about it:P

[knockdown]

I agree with the previous comments. Call her, and if she doesnt answer, send her a text message or an email or a letter, any form of communication that she can see that you're trying to patch things up will make her see that you're a true friend who wants to right things that were wrong. Sooner or later she's going to have to face you, and thats when you guys will try and fix things.

I hope things work out between you guys. ♡

[carviangli]

Luckily it wasn't as big of a problem as I thought(I thought it was because well...I avoid drama/conflict and even a small problem seems huge to me)

I talked to her and it's sorted...you know high school drama...usually quite petty

[myloveshine]

She definitely won't bother talking to you, so you'll have to make the first move. She probably won't listen to you if you just go up and talk to her... she'll probably breeze past you again. Someone in the comments before me mentioned sending her a message, so she can read it without you there. I would suggest something written, although a phone voice mail or whatever might work just as nicely. :) Good luck and I hope it gets fixed ♥

[carviangli]

Oh lol. She actually did bother talking to me-but only because I dragged her into a corner and started talking before she could walk away.

It was alright. I apologized for being a bitch and she was pretty understanding that I just snapped.

[thebloomroom]

I think you should talk to her in person, just go up to her and hopefully she'll listen. Give her a sincere apology, and it probably won't work the first time but keep at it! If she doesn't want to listen to you, then approach her a different way (call, text, ect), but I think doign things in person is more ballsy and makes a better impression. Good luckkk <3

[carviangli]

Yeah...I talked to her in person:)

And it worked out well^_^ She accepted my apology and then it got awkward for a while but now it's alright.

oh and...I really don't get your icon-is it from a movie?! o.0