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Nov 16, 2006 14:13

Zomg! I'm so much more e-mature than everyone around me ( Read more... )

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mr_sharkey November 16 2006, 19:21:08 UTC
That's it - I don't know who you are, but you're a bastard and I'm creating an LJ community so I, and other people you don't know or give a shit about, can talk about you behind your back without your knowing - actually, I kinda hope you find out so you'll be pissed, but if you couldn't care less I don't give a damn! *sniff*

M.

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mr_sharkey November 16 2006, 19:21:47 UTC
ps - I _really_ love your LJ icon! And your use of vowels! Be my friend if I kiss your ass hard enough?

M.

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caspervonb November 16 2006, 19:47:40 UTC
Right on the head.

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mr_sharkey November 16 2006, 19:19:21 UTC
Yes.

Because people can live inside their heads, with their comfortable opinions, and receive external validation for doing so, it's like having their cake and eating it too - until, of course, they run into a reality check and then it all ends in tears.

I've lost a great many friends because they preferred the soothing inner world of their fantasies to reality, but my remaining friendships are stronger because of it.

M.

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intercitykitty November 16 2006, 19:36:07 UTC
I think you hit the nail on the head there. Living on the internet is 'safe'. You can be whoever you want to be and (unless people know you IRL) you are the superstar/hero/victim/onlyonethatmatters and no one has reason to call you on it.
Don't get me wrong, there are some WONDERFUL people I have met via the internet... but with that comes the ones who need you just as much as you need them in cyberspace. If they care online, they are clearly a good person and have a reason to live. You NEED them!

I've lost a few people to the internet. The ones who get so wrapped up in their little online world they have created that they don't have time for their real friends anymore, or just don't seem to care as much.
All of a sudden you are replaced by "zarg0n35" because they give you *hugs* and tell you that 'it's not your fault...you're a great person' when your REAL friends dare to question something you have done that, in reality, isn't so great.

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mr_sharkey November 16 2006, 19:49:08 UTC
"I've lost a few people to the internet. The ones who get so wrapped up in their little online world they have created that they don't have time for their real friends anymore, or just don't seem to care as much."

*cough*WOW*cough*

M.

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intercitykitty November 16 2006, 20:21:15 UTC
SHOCKING ISNT IT?!?!!??

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2ndaryairplane November 16 2006, 20:04:43 UTC
*hugs*

i Feel your anger.

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caspervonb November 17 2006, 02:06:49 UTC

/cockpunch

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razorjak November 16 2006, 20:50:54 UTC
I think the majority of people walk around thinking of themselves as the hero of their own movie.

Maybe that's why I can handle online AND real life. I don't view myself as the hero of my own movie. I see myself as part of the supporting cast in other peoples movies. :-)

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mr_sharkey November 16 2006, 23:48:03 UTC
I'm a huge believer in Maslow's hierarchy of needs[*] At the top of the pyramid, some people have a need for drama, other a need for power - not everyone meets those needs constructively. I don't believe in fate - I believe in design tolerances. Some people are just out of control and plainly enjoy it that way.

M.

[*] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow%27s_hierarchy

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caspervonb November 17 2006, 02:40:31 UTC
Heh

I think that if there is a movie, we are ALL supporting cast.

The look on some faces will be priceless come Judgement Day (or
Ragnarok or whatever).

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ebonyraine November 16 2006, 21:08:41 UTC
I am the hero of my own movie. And I have my own soundtrack.

But I also watch other people's movies.

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shara November 16 2006, 21:31:41 UTC
I vote for this candidate.

Also, I don't think circle jerks are an internet phenomenon.... people were bitchy, catty, hypocritical drama queens before the internets. Only now, we can sit back and watch even if we don't know any of the participants.

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ebonyraine November 16 2006, 21:35:57 UTC
Here, Here!

People will be assholes and pretenders no matter where they are. Here it's just much easier to pretend you're not a fat chick or that you are actually a 15 year old virgin (as apposed to being a 45 year old man).

Not to mention, of course that the drama is also further reaching, as I know this conversation is taking place across two continents and at least three countries. (Rather cool, though really.)

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caspervonb November 17 2006, 02:25:32 UTC
"Not to mention, of course that the drama is also further reaching,
as I know this conversation is taking place across two continents
and at least three countries. (Rather cool, though really.)"

I've never really been able to figure out if it is a good or bad
thing but the internet has certainly made my world much smaller.

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