Comments | cassidyj: Bullitens are fun.

cassidyj

Bullitens are fun.

Oct 31, 2006 13:36

I'm not much into bullitens. I read them, sometimes I even do a few of the fun little surveys. But this one caught my eye, because it is so true. It applies to me so much. And the big thing is not what people have done to me in the past, but what people have not done to me. (See bold and italicized.) Especially the last part about girls complaining ( Read more... )

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blonde1bandnerd November 2 2006, 20:54:28 UTC

its ttrue. us girls are hypocritical and overly judgemental. if a guy is nice to me, im automatically suspicious b/c if hes not an a-hole, what bad qualities is he hiding? i usually dont recognize that the greatest guy i know-my best guy friends-could be more and it could be great.
but hey, guys are the same way if a girl isnt 5'8", blonde, and a 36-22-36 so i feel ur pain

cassidyj November 3 2006, 03:08:40 UTC

True for some of it. Personality and being fun to be around certainly does make a difference over attractivity, though. I'm just picky. I mean, I've got female friends who I love to be around, but for their personality to really be insanely attractive to me, she'd have to fit my perfect personality standards-not just fun to be around, but just as witty and sarcastic as me, if not more. Wit and sarcasm are always bigger turn-ons than tits and asses to me. The problem is, there are so very few girls who have that type of sense of humor, and who excel at it.

blonde1bandnerd November 3 2006, 03:10:00 UTC

but at least you admit you're picky and have high standards. so do girls. the good ppl get burned a lot but thats life.

cassidyj November 3 2006, 12:59:00 UTC

They aren't really high standards, just uncommon ones. Like I said, just because none of my female friends are extremely sarcastic and witty doesn't mean I can't have an absolutely awesome time hanging out with them. And obviously those standards don't mean I won't go out with anyone else.