Love hurts

[cassierachelle]

"Love hurts" couldn't be a more true statement right now. Do I love him? Do I love HIM? Should I date my best friend, or is that wrong somehow? I'm the girl with a bunch of AMAZING guy friends, and knows that they all love me very much (of course they do, they're SO freaking protective), but is so scared of love and commitment that I run away at

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[patchzilla]

"Should I date my best friend, or is that wrong somehow?"

Speaking from experience, it's one of the better decisions I have made. Yes, you put your friendship on the line in a way...but if something doesn't work out it wasn't meant to be and if you're really true friends, you'll stay that way. I don't like hearing that you're sad, but you're a smart girl and you will make the right choice. And I agree with what your friend told you-I've unfortunately put everything on the line before and it didn't work out but then again, I did it a second time and I'm extremely happy. God will help you through anything you go through. "If God brings you to it, he'll help you through it." I love you!

[cassierachelle]

Thanks so much Leah, this has just been a really hard situation, and I allready told the guy that maybe this just isn't the right time or what not, butI am beginning to think that I made the wrong decision. The thing is, is that I have TWO best guy friends (more than that actually, but I am wicked close to these two) and a part of me is completely in love with both of them, and that's the hard part. And then there is another guy, a "past love" if you will (but we were never really "in love" by any means cause we were both scared and we didn't go for it) and I still feel like there are feelings there, and he is one that I have never really gotten over which makes things a bit more complicated. I am so happy right now actually, cause when I am with these guys, they make me feel wonderful and just SO happy, but it just makes my heart hurt to be around all of them sometimes... I don't know what to do, so I just trust that God will open up doors and try and guide me through the right ones. Thanks so much again Leah, I hope everything

[patchzilla]

hmm it sounds like you're feeling 469327436 different things and you're torn between all of them. In that case, let things happen naturally. If you think you made the wrong decision, it will somehow feel right to you in the end. Sometimes we don't see what is best for us at that moment, but everything works out for good in the end. Keep your head up! And aren't you coming to Tampa soon??

[broadwaycarstar]

I really miss you Cassie! You should up-date more often ;) I hope that you figure everything out, I'll say a little prayer for you that you're able to sort everything out

[cassierachelle]

Thanks girl, I will try to update more, I hope everything is going good for you right now :)

[poodlehead724]

my little craybug, i'm sorry things are confusing and stressful for you right now babe. but if anyone i know has the smarts and good sense to get through something like this, it is you. if i had any success in the relationship arena, i'd feel like i might be able to offer some useful advice. however, we both know that's not the case. lol. so, i will just tell you how much i love you and how much faith i have in you that you can handle ANYTHING that gets thrown at you. so, keep your head up sunshine and give me a buzz if you ever want to chat it up... i love and miss you oodles!

[cassierachelle]

you always make me smile :) thanks hun, I miss you too!