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Basic Info
Name:Janet
Age:31
Gender:*looks down shirt* Wow, I'm a woman. ;)
Would you prefer that your stamp be of the same gender as you?:Doesn't matter.
About Me
What are your three best traits?:
I have a great sense of humor. My mother always struck me as a sad woman, even when I was young and I wanted to make her smile. I would make her laugh and sing for only her and that made me want to make other sad people smile.
Empathetic- I've been through a lot and been knocked down quite a few times so I'm very empathetic to people feelings and I can explain why people act they way they do, even if I per se don't agree with them. My empathy also makes me kinder to the underdogs. I feel they go hand in hand with me so I didn't want kindness to be separate.
Dorky- Now this is positive because when my "dork mode" is activated around people my introverted side fades away and out comes this really passionate and happy person. I'm most happy when my inner geek is unleashed and accepted by people.
What are your three worst traits?:
Timid - If you know me or seen me around you know I'm quite hard on myself and lack in the self-confidence department. I've had low self worth since I was at least five or so the therapist says.
Self Destructive - I'm my own worst enemy. I was finally diagnosed bipolar one and it was reallyleft untreated for a long time, so this summer I hit rock bottom, but I'm finally getting properly diagnosed so I'm choosing to see the silver lining, the very thin silver lining.
Headstrong - My dad's really vocal about this one. I kind of see it, more so when it's pointed out to me. XD I am easy to get along with but I am quite bull headed on some things, especially if it's something that sets off my OCD or would trigger a panic attack.
Likes?: comic books, jazz/soul music ( whatever Adele, Amy Winehouse, Rebecca Ferguson wolud be under), dogs, religion, writing, singing, drawing.
Dislikes?: holier than thou people, hypocrites, people who are all talk and no action (basically the majority of my family :P), modern day politicians (they just don't make them like they used to).
How are you under stress? Are you calm or do you freak out a bit?:
I sweat the small stuff but if there's like a death in the family, I'm the one you want in charge. It's very weird. When my mom passed I was the one who took charge and called people. I was surprised at my strength. My dad is such a take charge person and in those rare moments he does fall apart, I rise up and take charge and am consoling yet numb to my own feelings until everything is stable in my eyes then I go in my room and fall apart.
Are you more likely to help yourself or to help others?:This is truly 50/50. It used to be help myself but I'm way better at helping other now but still have my greedy moments.
What would you do with a million dollars?:Pay off my debts, buy better health insurance so I can get the proper help and also buy my father better health insurance so he can get better help too. I'd buy 2 homes next door to each other so my dad has a home and I have a home. I'd get a driver for myself and a chef too. I'd go back to school and also take singing lessons and art lessons. I'd also take business classes so I can one day open up my own comic store.
Castle Specific
If you had to pick one character to go with you to a deserted island, who would it be and why?: I nearly said Rick, but I'd go with Kate.
Who's your favorite character and why?: Kate. She's been through a lot and she's a survivor. Plus I adore istj characters and in typology forums she's typed as istj. I find it curious that an infp like myself adores istj characters so much.
Who's your least favorite character and why?: I love the main cast, so really any bad guy that tries to hurt them.
Either/Or
Leader or Follower?: Follower, but I kind of see myself as loner due to my medical problems and shy nature.
Optimist or Pessimist?: I'm optimistic for others, but very pessimistic about myself and my future.
Social or Anti-Social?:Anti-Social, but not in a Professor Snape kind of way.
Impulsive or Cautious?:Cautious
Justice or Compassion?:Compassion
Introverted or Extroverted?:Introverted
Serious or Funny?:Funny, but not a class clown. I have a very serious side and know when things need to be serious, but also know when things need to lighten up a bit.
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