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Feb 20, 2005 07:42

I seem to be doing little but causing trouble and bad blood in this house... Maybe it really will be better for everyone when I leave ( Read more... )

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nells36 February 20 2005, 12:42:36 UTC

First off- she just needs some solitude w/o people. She knows that things are very rocky between you two, but you not letting her have "her space" (the bedroom) for a little while w/o you in it is now wearing on her immensely ( ... )

Thanks cat_o_9tails February 20 2005, 13:09:53 UTC

Youre being very helpful... especially lately, while things are at their most stressful. It's almost sad that there's nothing going on with you that I can help with.

Re: Thanks nells36 February 21 2005, 05:40:34 UTC

aw shucks....:P Things are good w/ me as long as those around me are good. I've seen what not going through the "proper" grieving stages does to a person and she's not there. It's going to hit her hard, and she can blame anything and everything on you- b/c she feels that you are "the problem". You're the newbie, and us gals attack the newest one before we attack old friends and family. It's a test in a way to see just how much shit you will take before you (guys) give up on us (gals).

Frankly- I just don't want to be the one she's with when it hits her hard.

Understood cat_o_9tails February 21 2005, 07:33:37 UTC

Its not the I can't handle her blaming me for everything, but its the thought of her deciding not to bother trying to stay together, because she sees everything as my fault.

I meant what I said before. I am not only capable but accepting of burdens, but this one is like carrying a bomb, it may go off, it may not, but it makes me nervous.

andier February 21 2005, 18:03:09 UTC

It definelty sounds as though some time away from each other is best at least temporary. You miss home (family & friends) and she has personal things to deal with along with having some sense of her own personal space when she needs it ( ... )