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[catalinakat]

So here I sit... with a conversation in front of me that could possibly show the bf/gf that their bf/gf is a liar and cheater. I'm not quite sure how or if I'm going to give this to the person. I'm not sure if this conversation will be enough to prove that they have cheated as many times as they have, but I know it would open up a conversation

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Kathy

[justiparke33]

The only advice I can give you is: Do what is right.

Whoever is getting cheated on DESERVES to know what is going on, REGARDLESS of how much pain it brings. Right now it just sounds like the cheater is getting away with alot. And you know what they say: "Once a cheater, always a cheater." By NOT saying anything you are letting the cheater know that he/she can get away with it. If the person who is getting cheated on thinks that the only reason you bring this forward is to break them up, than that is their problem. At least you won't have the fact that you knew about it and didn't do anything on your conscience.
Does this make sense?
You are a smart girl. And you know right from wrong. You will do the right thing.
-JP

[catalinakat]

thanks traci for your thoughts. after i wrote this i made the decision to tell her. i have been wanting to tell her for a long time and now that i have some proof i know that i need to tell her. she doesn't deserve any of this and he needs a wake up call to get his life in check. i'm glad you could tell me your opinions on this matter.

[hot_andi101]

as someone who has been on both ends of this, i say....

DO IT!

everyone will thank you in the end.