*raises hand* still here :3 wouldn't miss the chance to read up and look at the streets of London, especially from your perspective. Your inner monologues and conflicts are always interesting 8Db
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firstly, and most importantly: awww !!! thank you for your kind words!! <33
im glad im still understandable and coherent. (my grandma actually explicitly told me that she doesnt want me to stay here because i should be back home so no one would worry about me- and i know i should base my decision on what i want, but everytime i think about this debate, her words strike a chord in me and leave me really guilty)
my bad! on the 4th july thing! i corrected it alr- it was guy fawkes night! oh mylorddd haha what was i honestly thinking lol! i wasnt even in uk in july T_____T... ohwelll!
ah, it shows you have a heart at least ;) there is no 'should' when it comes to these kind of things. what matters, imo, is the reason behind the decision. i mean, i just don't want you to be stuck thinking you should be doing A, but you're doing B, so you feel really guilty for not doing A when you.. shouldn't. like, if you made your decision based on what you want, okay. if you didn't, it's okay too. that's all i'm trying to say here, not whether or not you, me or your grandma is right in this.
things aren't mutually exclusive. alot of times we want A, but A means giving up B. we don't have to give B up completely, we can compromise, but in the end, A is the higher priority. to me, as long as someone has decided on which option is the higher priority, they should go forth with that decision but try and incorporate as much as B into post-decision life. easier said than done of course, especially when feelings/emotions are involved, heh >w<
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im glad im still understandable and coherent. (my grandma actually explicitly told me that she doesnt want me to stay here because i should be back home so no one would worry about me- and i know i should base my decision on what i want, but everytime i think about this debate, her words strike a chord in me and leave me really guilty)
my bad! on the 4th july thing! i corrected it alr- it was guy fawkes night! oh mylorddd haha what was i honestly thinking lol! i wasnt even in uk in july T_____T... ohwelll!
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ah, it shows you have a heart at least ;) there is no 'should' when it comes to these kind of things. what matters, imo, is the reason behind the decision. i mean, i just don't want you to be stuck thinking you should be doing A, but you're doing B, so you feel really guilty for not doing A when you.. shouldn't. like, if you made your decision based on what you want, okay. if you didn't, it's okay too. that's all i'm trying to say here, not whether or not you, me or your grandma is right in this.
things aren't mutually exclusive. alot of times we want A, but A means giving up B. we don't have to give B up completely, we can compromise, but in the end, A is the higher priority. to me, as long as someone has decided on which option is the higher priority, they should go forth with that decision but try and incorporate as much as B into post-decision life. easier said than done of course, especially when feelings/emotions are involved, heh >w<
HAHA I SEE! 8D i was wonderinggggg! ;D
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