Not to be a bitch, but,seedless_grapesDecember 13 2007, 22:26:08 UTC
Do you ever write about anything positive? You're the most miserable person on my friends page. Life has its ups and downs, but to focus so much only on the negative is not only counter-productive, it's unattractive.
Re: Not to be a bitch, but,cathedralnightsDecember 15 2007, 05:01:13 UTC
i do, but i have my friends page filtered, and yes, i am the most miserable person on your friends page. attractive is something i don't care about, it only brings pain. but what it boils down to, is that this is my journal, if my life is filled with misery, or i feel miserable, i'm going to write about it as much as i want. so if you don't like it, don't read it, and if you want to read it, and don't like it, keep it to yourself. maybe you shouldn't focus on what people are saying, but why they say it. it's not live-everyonemustread, it's livejournal, and a real friend would care how i feel, not just that i bring them down. so not to sound like a dick, but unless you have something constructive or positive to say, just don't say anything at all.
Re: Not to be a bitch, but,seedless_grapesDecember 15 2007, 15:08:55 UTC
hmm...
I think that the point of the "comments" feature on livejournal is to receive feedback, and there are no rules stating that said feedback needs to be positive or negative.
I feel that what I said WAS constructive in the fact that I was pointing out that you have a counter-productive attitude towards life. It's 100% true that life is what YOU make of it, and walking around stating that everything sucks will in turn make every life event seem like the worst thing in the world. Everyone has breakups, crappy days, accidents, failures and deaths of loved ones, but not everyone chooses to let unfortunate events rule the rest of their lives. No one wants to be around a miserable person either; happiness is magnetic.
Re: Not to be a bitch, but,cathedralnightsDecember 15 2007, 16:19:14 UTC
i understand that you may feel like you're helping me out by telling me something that's been said loads of times before, but it's really not that constructive. though i suppose that the main part that pisses me off was that the last time we spoke was years ago, and then you just comment my LJ like you know anything about my life. my livejournal is for me to write in, and again, if you don't like it, don't read it. you don't know anything about me, anything about my life, or anything about how i feel, so how on earth could you possibly give any constructive feedback on what i should or shouldn't do? i'm sure that any moron could look at an engine, and if it's broken enough, find a problem, but the fact of the matter is he probably wouldn't help much
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Eat pancakes Greg. They make people happy. Also, put a little square piece of butter on the top. It really adds the extra something of joy and specialness.
Whenever you feel really down, just try to think optimistically. I always tell myself that things happen for a reason and that our struggles will benefit us in the future somehow. I know that "belief" has it's flaws....but it does help me get through rough patches sometimes.
When you get down, do what you need to do to make it easier on yourself. If that means, you write in here...by all means-do so. Do it and don't worry about what anyone else thinks. If writing in here doesn't work to make you feel more at ease, try finding something that does help you! :)
Hugs sometimes make me feel better.....so here! Have another *hugggg*
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I think that the point of the "comments" feature on livejournal is to receive feedback, and there are no rules stating that said feedback needs to be positive or negative.
I feel that what I said WAS constructive in the fact that I was pointing out that you have a counter-productive attitude towards life. It's 100% true that life is what YOU make of it, and walking around stating that everything sucks will in turn make every life event seem like the worst thing in the world. Everyone has breakups, crappy days, accidents, failures and deaths of loved ones, but not everyone chooses to let unfortunate events rule the rest of their lives. No one wants to be around a miserable person either; happiness is magnetic.
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Life can get pretty difficult sometimes.
Whenever you feel really down, just try to think optimistically. I always tell myself that things happen for a reason and that our struggles will benefit us in the future somehow. I know that "belief" has it's flaws....but it does help me get through rough patches sometimes.
When you get down, do what you need to do to make it easier on yourself. If that means, you write in here...by all means-do so. Do it and don't worry about what anyone else thinks. If writing in here doesn't work to make you feel more at ease, try finding something that does help you! :)
Hugs sometimes make me feel better.....so here! Have another *hugggg*
<3 Take Care.
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