No, its not possible. People whether they try to or not will always hurt you, even if it is unintentional. As for breaking promises and the rest I've yet to find a single person that can fulfill any of it.
that's totally not true! there are lots of people who will never hurt you and never lie to you and never break promises and such. i agree that yes, people will often cause you pain and it is usually unintentional... and it is hard to find people who will not. but it IS possible. i have known many people in my life who have never hurt me. have some faith in humanity. just because you haven't met any of these people yet don't mean they don't exist.
oh! and something else: since when is hurt ALWAYS a bad thing? oftentimes people will (again, intentionally or unintentionally) hurt us in order for us to learn a lesson. there are many times where John, my friends, or my family have hurt me, but in the end i am happy for the suffering i went through because i am a better person now because of it. i'm sure you have gone through similar situations, even if you do not realize it. why should we hold people accountable for the hurt they cause us that is for our own benefit? lets say that there is a very important lesson about life, about yourself, that you cannot learn except by means of suffering and is essential for your life and your person. do you think that God would abstain from teaching you this important lesson because the learning of it involves hurt and pain? oftentimes even God hurts us. but, like people, sometimes it is because we need to learn and grow.
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ehhhh, what? that's not true... people, while imperfect, are DEFINITELY capable of these things. it's just a matter of finding the right ones.
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have some faith in humanity. just because you haven't met any of these people yet don't mean they don't exist.
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since when is hurt ALWAYS a bad thing? oftentimes people will (again, intentionally or unintentionally) hurt us in order for us to learn a lesson. there are many times where John, my friends, or my family have hurt me, but in the end i am happy for the suffering i went through because i am a better person now because of it. i'm sure you have gone through similar situations, even if you do not realize it. why should we hold people accountable for the hurt they cause us that is for our own benefit?
lets say that there is a very important lesson about life, about yourself, that you cannot learn except by means of suffering and is essential for your life and your person. do you think that God would abstain from teaching you this important lesson because the learning of it involves hurt and pain? oftentimes even God hurts us. but, like people, sometimes it is because we need to learn and grow.
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