Oh, Miss C. I am not sure if we can ever truly figure out death, but surely, with time and space... and perhaps silence... your words will return to you. You are in my thoughts. XOXO
i owe you an email that i keep writing or sentence or two of a day. i will be in toronto at xmas. i miss you.
you and your full length leather gloves are one of the images in my well of feminine power, strong jawed and teeth bared. as you might imagine, i spend more time there than usual these days.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you go through all the stages of grief in a healthy way. Please see a counselor or therapist if it's too hard to deal with. I'm Jennifer. Please message me any time if you're having a hard time. I've had a lot of loss in my life as well, I'm very familiar with grief. I have to admit that mountain climbing is something I discourage my friends to do for the obvious reason. The same reason why I tell people not to skydive or smoke cigarettes or go rock climbing or go surfing. But I guess at the end of the day everybody has to have some risk in your life. I know how hard it is to let go of someone maybe you loved so much. You should try to celebrate the good times you had with your friend, and don't focus on the bad parts. Hope you're doing better!
I'm so sorry for your loss. That's really rough. I know that.....grief is hard and painful and frustrating. I have lost someone who was dear to me as well. I feel for you. I know you'll spend time every day thinking about him and what you could've done and what went wrong, and how things could be better. But we can't control other people and their destinies. We can only try to influence them in the best ways possible, but we may never be able to actually change people. That is more in their hands. I know you must feel pressure to only say good and amazing things about this person, but it can be very healing to mention their faults as well. Nobody's perfect. I know what you mean by it coming in waves. I've experienced that myself. I'm not sure if this has happened to you, but in my imagination I still write to and talk to the person that I lost, still imagining that they're here around me instead of gone because that's the only way I can deal with it. Don't feel bad if you have to take a break from school or something. Grief may
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i owe you an email that i keep writing or sentence or two of a day.
i will be in toronto at xmas.
i miss you.
you and your full length leather gloves are one of the images in my well of feminine power, strong jawed and teeth bared.
as you might imagine, i spend more time there than usual these days.
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