Need to Vent!

[catsimmie]

Ok so I've known Erin almost 30 years! Since I was a senior in High School and she was a Sophomore, she was even at my wedding to Tom! She was always the weirdest (weirder than me if you can believe that) one in the group at least emotionally. And that's saying something! I mean Tasha's mom was such a nut because she was so religious, She swore the

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[queenmidalah]

Holy

[catsimmie]

I think at this point it's more tolerating her than friendship. I realized last year in San Diego how she's the only person I know who hasn't grown up any.

But I think this is the last straw.

[queenmidalah]

You have way more straws than I do, but yeah, I'd have to agree. Your world's rotation does not happen because of it bouncing off her ass.

[dqbunny]

Nope. Frankie and you come first. Let her ass hang in the wind.

[annaryder]

It seems straightforward ... you can't afford it, your son has an important medical appointment, you're uncomfortable being used as a cover story/lying ... so the answer clearly has to be a guiltless no to what she's asking. If she were a true friend she would understand and respect your decision. Just stick to your guns and ignore her nagging, and tell her calmly "I said no and my answer won't change no matter how many times you ask." No apologies because you have nothing to be sorry about. If it were me, wouldn't get involved in ratting her out, tbh, unless the husband was a good friend. You don't need drama in your life, you've got Frankie to focus on right now, in your place I'd just back away quietly from this toxic friend. And watch your back with this one. She's a liar and a betrayer and a user. That's not good friend material. Good luck.

[wendymypooh]

I'm reading this a bit late...but I think she is totally wrong for the way she is acting...especially in regards to her marriage. I mean, if she is that unhappy, she either needs to seek marriage counseling or get out of the marriage