Aftermath of my last sent topic
Longer than before so it'll be cut again.
Sorry for some of the mispelling and such. I didn't even bother to look at it and fix it.
Vincent: i know i mean there is nothin more i can say......i mean i know it needs to stop, thats why i am cuting all contact with anyone and everybody on my space....i know there is nothin more i can say...you know you can only say sorry so many times so.......i mean nothin more i can say....its the cool the way you came to me and all thanks man....
Me: I think you misunderstood me, this isn't for you to say I know too, this is if you REALLY want to stop, we'll talk about this. If you knew then you wouldn't do it so don't tell me you know. It just complicates things further. Cutting contacts might be a good start, but you need to do more than just cut contacts, you need to talk to me and let out things you know are wrong. Once again, I'm willing to go out to eat, just me and you, and we'll discuss these things.
Vincent: thank but i dont need anyone giving me advice i know what i did wrong.......dont misunderstand me im not trying to be a asshole or anything i just dont think i need 40 people in my ear about the same thing i know what happen i made the choice not to change and i lost......i know its up to me to change and iw ill
Me: Oh, excuse ya bro for not being just any 40 people. This isn't just about what you did to only vicki. Honestly, do you think it's that by passable that you have done the same thing to other women who are now no longer around? And to go as far as using my name for some lies just to impress women? Or you alter your stories so that people think you aren't with other women or even talking to other women? You honestly think that's something a TRUE friend would just sit here and let go unnoticed anymore? Do you THINK I like having to tell people when you're lying sometimes? I didn't appreciate Tiffany coming to me telling me things I know I didn't say that came out of your mouth. Then I have to turn around and tell Vicki that what you say might not be true because I thought maybe you told her? Come on now. And I thought you were cutting off connections with people, so why you say you have 40 people in your ear is beyond me. But if you honestly know what you gotta do then be my guess. If the same thing happens though and maybe next time you end up in a fuckin gutter for fuckin around with the wrong woman and no one there to help you, don't say ya "bro" didn't try to help you. I know it's up to you to change, but don't forget the people who care for you, that's what they are here for. To HELP you. Not be a nagging bunch of people. Honestly, comparing me to 40 people bugging you abou the same thing? I don't even talk to you about your personal business 9 times out of 10! So if I'm coming to you know, you must have some indication that this is kind of a serious issue. And you told Vicki you wanted to change (yes, I read some convo between you too) and it seems like you're going through the self pity route. And there I hear as far as you saying you wanna die or some shit like that? You think I wouldn't be concerned about hearing that?! You know damn well I don't believe in suicide and just hearing that is enough to make me jump down your throat. But hey, maybe I'm caring to much. If you think you can do it all on your own then more power too ya. Last time though, if you don't want help then just reply saying so and I'll drop it for you so I'm not 1 of those 40 people. Don't take me as being mean, I'm just concerned, so hopefully you understand that much.
Sorry for some of the mispelling and such. I didn't even bother to look at it and fix it.
Vincent: i know i mean there is nothin more i can say......i mean i know it needs to stop, thats why i am cuting all contact with anyone and everybody on my space....i know there is nothin more i can say...you know you can only say sorry so many times so.......i mean nothin more i can say....its the cool the way you came to me and all thanks man....
Me: I think you misunderstood me, this isn't for you to say I know too, this is if you REALLY want to stop, we'll talk about this. If you knew then you wouldn't do it so don't tell me you know. It just complicates things further. Cutting contacts might be a good start, but you need to do more than just cut contacts, you need to talk to me and let out things you know are wrong. Once again, I'm willing to go out to eat, just me and you, and we'll discuss these things.
Vincent: thank but i dont need anyone giving me advice i know what i did wrong.......dont misunderstand me im not trying to be a asshole or anything i just dont think i need 40 people in my ear about the same thing i know what happen i made the choice not to change and i lost......i know its up to me to change and iw ill
Me: Oh, excuse ya bro for not being just any 40 people. This isn't just about what you did to only vicki. Honestly, do you think it's that by passable that you have done the same thing to other women who are now no longer around? And to go as far as using my name for some lies just to impress women? Or you alter your stories so that people think you aren't with other women or even talking to other women? You honestly think that's something a TRUE friend would just sit here and let go unnoticed anymore? Do you THINK I like having to tell people when you're lying sometimes? I didn't appreciate Tiffany coming to me telling me things I know I didn't say that came out of your mouth. Then I have to turn around and tell Vicki that what you say might not be true because I thought maybe you told her? Come on now. And I thought you were cutting off connections with people, so why you say you have 40 people in your ear is beyond me. But if you honestly know what you gotta do then be my guess. If the same thing happens though and maybe next time you end up in a fuckin gutter for fuckin around with the wrong woman and no one there to help you, don't say ya "bro" didn't try to help you. I know it's up to you to change, but don't forget the people who care for you, that's what they are here for. To HELP you. Not be a nagging bunch of people. Honestly, comparing me to 40 people bugging you abou the same thing? I don't even talk to you about your personal business 9 times out of 10! So if I'm coming to you know, you must have some indication that this is kind of a serious issue. And you told Vicki you wanted to change (yes, I read some convo between you too) and it seems like you're going through the self pity route. And there I hear as far as you saying you wanna die or some shit like that? You think I wouldn't be concerned about hearing that?! You know damn well I don't believe in suicide and just hearing that is enough to make me jump down your throat. But hey, maybe I'm caring to much. If you think you can do it all on your own then more power too ya. Last time though, if you don't want help then just reply saying so and I'll drop it for you so I'm not 1 of those 40 people. Don't take me as being mean, I'm just concerned, so hopefully you understand that much.