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ceiphiedknight

Second Chance Idol :: Week Three :: Second Look

Feb 28, 2012 22:44

Don't feel that you have to watch the video, but I thought it would complement this entry. Perhaps you'll feel interested enough to watch it at the end, once I've finished saying what I feel I have to say ( Read more... )

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gingergirlslove March 1 2012, 08:44:48 UTC

Music is EXTREMELY powerful that way. My friends and family bond over SEVERAL different songs & each time I hear them I think of those people. Great Entry.

whipchick March 2 2012, 02:57:33 UTC

It's amazing how a song can take you back...Mine's "Boys of Summer" - senior year of high school, right there.

lawchicky March 2 2012, 04:08:32 UTC

I have songs that take me bak places too.

yuniebaby March 2 2012, 05:10:54 UTC

I can't listen to James Taylor without longing for a Missouri river bank and a cup of coffee. Music is so powerful.

pixiebelle March 2 2012, 17:32:08 UTC

Music is wonderful on that way. I have certain songs that remind me of my high school best friend (we had a falling out and she passed away last year). It really stirs a lot of emotions.

I suggest reaching out to them. I regret not contacting my friend before she died. I always thought we would re-connect one day... I didn't know that her time would be cut short. Though don't go into it expecting things to be the same as it was (that was our falling out, she expected us to be like high school friend's all over again and I didn't live up to her expectations).

This was a great entry, one I think many of us can relate to.

ceiphiedknight March 2 2012, 20:07:36 UTC

Thank you for the thoughts/advice. The thing is, though, I can't and won't forgive her. You see, the reason I stopped being friends with her is because we had a friend who died of cancer, she had only just turned 20, and this girl didn't go to the funeral. We had this...expectation, I guess, that she would go with us. She had pulled away from us (we were a very close group of 5 girlfriends) for a while due to getting a boyfriend who was long-distance...but my other two friends and I thought that when Leah passed, this girl would just come back to us and we would deal with it together. My two best friends and I did ultimately deal with it together...but the other girl went out of town with her boyfriend on the day of the funeral.

So, there it is. She's tried to contact me in the past, and we've run into each other a couple of times, and I've been civil. But I will not go out of my way to speak with her.