My former Sister in law posted today that her cancer is back and it's terminal. I'm not close to her, and she is not my favorite person, but if this isnt drama, then I feel bad for her. I feel even worse for her becuase she is estranged from her two kids, my neice and nephew, but that is her own doing as well. I dont know how they are going to take
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I have a pretty awful mother, who used me for years (I literally supported her for over a decade) she was demanding and childish and hurt me in a myriad of ways. 18 months ago I discovered while I was supporting her financially and was literally at her constant beck and call she was bad mouthing me to anyone who would listen.
At that point I cut off all ties and have been much happier for it. At this point I can't see myself ever forgiving her, because I know she has no interest in changing. If she was dying I can imagine the outside pressure to make nice but I can't think it would change my feelings.
I feel for your niece and nephew, I really do.
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Unless the reason is really serious. If she did or let something abusive happen, especially to the girl, then she can rot. I just don't know what the background is.
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