Thoughts on OkCupid, pt 5.
Just a few thoughts I had about pictures. Firstly:
Making this your default picture makes you look kinda cool and fashionable.
When this is the follow up, it makes you look like a deceptive ugly guy.
Red hair is fine. Not color balancing your photos a little to make your head not look like a fireball isn't.
This man said on his profile that I should message him if:
You can have fun going out, or staying home. If you are interested in casual dating for right now. I don't know when I will be ready for something long-term and serious, but who knows :) If you don't have any children. (sorry) If you look bigger than America Ferrara (random thick celeb), I'm probably not going to message you back. (sorry again) I'm not an asshole, I promise :) If you are taller than me, I'm probably not going to message you back. (He's 5'10"?) Damn, maybe I am an asshole. :P
Forgive me if I sound like a very judgmental person here. I'm going to say this though: People who are pretty or handsome can afford to be stupid or rude and people will probably still hang out with them, albeit for shallow reasons. People who are not very pretty or maybe very overweight need to have exceptionally great personalities, and people will definitely still hang out with them too. Bottom line: you can't be ugly, rude, divorced, and uneducated and think that chicks will dig it.