Gerr and stuff

[ceterari]

Do you have a friend, or maybe even multiple friends, where you feel as though the friendship is not really reciprocated? I certainly do. I always end up feeling like I am the one doing for, and offering moral support. If this person needs something I'm on the top of their list, but if I need to talk I'd better find someone else to tell because

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[kellymeine]

I can't speak for anyone else, but I know that I always get phone calls when I'm in the middle of doing something. Never when I'm sitting at home with nothing to do, always when I'm driving, or having a conversation with someone else, or, I've also had people call when I'm about to get some!

It can make me a bit brusque, and I'll try to get the caller off the line, but that's because I really really can't concentrate on two things at once, and I view it as a "first come, first serve" type of thing.

Anyway, I hope that your friendships become more reciprocated. =/

[ceterari]

I'm not referring you you in this. We've had a pretty reciprocal friendship IMO. We're both busy people with seperate lives, and it's cool that people can't always talk when I need to vent over something. I just get frustrated when it's always one sided, they vent and then when I say something they're hungry and have to go, or want to watch TV instead. Kind of makes you feel like mud, y'know?