Why do I constantly put my foot in my mouth?

[cexcitten]

So just when I thought things couldn't freakin get worse with me and my ex boyfriend. It just did. I was talking to his roommate (who is a good friend of mine) online just now and I said that I had given up on staying friends with him. I was going to explain that I felt like I was forcing him to talk to me, which only hurt me more every single time

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[blookie_doo]

Oh, hunny, I'm sorry. It's never fun when things like that happen, yet they do don't they? Don't worry, I'm sure it'll be okay and that your explaination was sufficient enough for him to let it go. And technically, you didn't put your foot in your mouth, because it just wasn't meant for him. Miss you!

[cexcitten]

Yeah, oh well. I'm over it now. *Shrug* C'est la vie. Maybe i'll be spending more quality time with Douglas *wink wink* Miss you too!!

[voodoonitrojive]

i don't think it's really that big of a deal, especially since you two explained things. there's no reason for you to hide your feelings about your post-intimate relationship, even if those feelings are, "it's too hard for me to be your friend." my sister had to do that with her ex-boyfriend because although he was being friendly and caring, she just couldn't take it. it sucks, though, that you two have mutual friends; i know what it's like to have to accomodate yourself to that situation. i also know, however, what it's like to be that friend in the middle, and although it's annoying, if they're good friends they'll work it out so they can split their time between you and louis. just don't do what my old friend did and get pissed about it :)

[cexcitten]

Yeah, it isn't too big of a deal except that I feel stupid for being upset about him reading it. I don't get pissed about them splitting their time... actually everyone sees him more than they see me, but I expected that so it isn't too big of a deal. I just wish it were easier for all of us to hang out, but I know time is the only thing that will make things better if they are meant to get better.

Thanks Ellen!