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[ch1m3r4]

I have a simple honest question. Why do women like assholes?
I don't understand it at all.
Maybe if I were an asshole I wouldn't have the problems I do.
Ehhh.. I don't think I could live with my self like that.
Ohh well..
I guess i'm shit out of luck then.

Comments

[tristjessa]

You know, I've dated assholes in the past... and as far as I can tell, guys are nice to you just up to the point where you fall in love with them (or until you start having sex with them, in some cases). And then they become assholes. But you really can't do anything about it, because you insist on telling yourself that you love him, and that he's just having a bad day, and he'll be back to his normal self soon enough... but then those bad days stretch into weeks and months... and you just can't tear yourself away from the guy even though deep down you know you should, because he doesn't treat you well.

I'm speaking from my own personal experiences though. =/

[tristjessa]

I left my post anonymous because you don't know me and I just stumbled across your journal, so posting my name would be useless. In addition to my first comment, I agree with tristjessa. Many guys who start out nice later start being assholes, but by then it's too late. In reponse to the person who said that it had to do with the father- obviously many relationships are related to how our parents treat us. However, the case you are mentioning is not so broad as to explain the "phenomenon" cited in the original post. If this guy thinks that almost all or all girls are attracted to assholes, your explanation doesn't work at all. Oh yeah, and I majored in psych, so I'm not ignorant of these theories. My original explanation was also writted while I was drunk. However, I think it still explains most cases- minus those where the guy starts off as nice.

[tristjessa]

*also written (not "writted")

[jehiva]

Then post your name fuckwad.