well we always say everyone will pay X amount, but then my husband ends up feeling bad (his brother has medical bills, his mom doesn't work, his dad has to send money home) so we end up covering, our rent portion, plus utilities and all yard upkeep. you know it just ends up being more than i plan for. i have no clue why we are considering moving in together again. we barely escaped last time with our marriage in tact (lol, jk kinda). my MIL really does help a lot i just have the biggest issue with his whole family over food (trans fats, bpa, gmo, soda, candy) etc, they could give a shit less. i really really care whatt my kids eat and where our food comes from. plus i want treats to be like a monthly thing, not a daily thing. we are just starting to talk about this - we might not even move back in with them. their apt lease is up in dec, ours in jan. i just feel like these apartments are so gross. my kids need a yard!!
one last thing, the reason we want to move from this apt (1 bedroom) is to get a room for our kids. so if we move in with the in laws we need a 4 bedroom, 5 bedroom house which are very hard to find in this area and are expensive!
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i have no clue why we are considering moving in together again. we barely escaped last time with our marriage in tact (lol, jk kinda). my MIL really does help a lot i just have the biggest issue with his whole family over food (trans fats, bpa, gmo, soda, candy) etc, they could give a shit less. i really really care whatt my kids eat and where our food comes from. plus i want treats to be like a monthly thing, not a daily thing.
we are just starting to talk about this - we might not even move back in with them. their apt lease is up in dec, ours in jan. i just feel like these apartments are so gross. my kids need a yard!!
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