I've been trying to keep up with everything happening on your end too. Reading entries even though I don't often comment...
I actually got a betta a few months back, and I really wanted to ask you about that- since you seem to be even more into them than I am and there's so much contradiction on betta care. Just sort of pick your brain for anything you might know that I haven't already thought of...
but with everything going on it never seemed like the right time, so instead I ... never commented at all. But I appreciate the comment! Glad to see someone's reading, and I'm not just screaming into a void, you know.
Oh psh. Vent away. Textually vomit all over your LiveJournal. It's *okay*. It's your journal, and I doubt anyone reading this is bothered by it. You're supposed to be able to purge out the negativity in your life via this website -- so use it as such. Don't think you need to pull punches because you think it's a bother for the rest of us to read through it, because it isn't. Your friends want to hear this stuff, so they can be there for you
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My LJ notifications are all messed up so I don't know if you'll even see me responding to this so late but- thank you very much for the comment. I read it several times and tried to respond but as I said.... Long comments, hard to respond to.
I'll be honest and say that I didn't reread it just now so I wont really respond to anything to specific in it- sorry. Just wanted to let you know I did read it and it is appreciated as I never got around to responding to it.....
And yes, I do work at Blockbuster. Six years, now.
I'm thinking maybe getting into a relationship with someone you don't actually have feelings for doesn't have to be as bad as it sounds. I mean, it really depends on the person and how bad they can get about things they want if you don't, but... For me, it's hard to define what "having feelings for" is supposed to mean anyway, so maybe just trying to have some company can be a good thing. Although of course I have no real idea about your situation or any real experience to draw from.
Yeah, I... really care about this person but it's just. I don't know if we could ever work out?
And I think maybe I could find feelings some day, I mean statistically speaking arranged marriages last more often than 'romantic' ones - which people in successful arranged marriages will tell you is because they learned to love each other
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I actually got a betta a few months back, and I really wanted to ask you about that- since you seem to be even more into them than I am and there's so much contradiction on betta care. Just sort of pick your brain for anything you might know that I haven't already thought of...
but with everything going on it never seemed like the right time, so instead I ... never commented at all. But I appreciate the comment! Glad to see someone's reading, and I'm not just screaming into a void, you know.
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I'll be honest and say that I didn't reread it just now so I wont really respond to anything to specific in it- sorry. Just wanted to let you know I did read it and it is appreciated as I never got around to responding to it.....
And yes, I do work at Blockbuster. Six years, now.
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And I think maybe I could find feelings some day, I mean statistically speaking arranged marriages last more often than 'romantic' ones - which people in successful arranged marriages will tell you is because they learned to love each other ( ... )
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