Thanksgiving Dillemma

[chanigirl]

I have been debating the whole "Holiday" thing with myself for last few days. With one of my favorite holidays coming up, and being married, there is the eternal question. . .Which family do we spend it with? In my case it is actually, Do I spend it with Scott's Family, or with my grandmother. See, my family has always had really cool

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[kiyotii]

I'm so lucky I don't have conflict like this. I don't like my family's Thanksgiving, and Adam is willing to go to my families Christmas, while his parents get us Christmas Eve! Tahdah!

I know you probably weren't looking for advise, but here's some anyways; do what you want, and don't bother about what anyone but your husband thinks. If you think this year it might be more important to support your Grandma, then do, and if the Berkners don't understand a dying relative, it doesn't sound like you should care what they think about.

[chanigirl]

Thanks Babe! I think that is what we will do in the end. Scott said something about it being their (his family's) fault about not planning in advance if we make other plans.

You know me, try to please everyone. He is much better at just shrugging and saying "oh well."