What to do? Give input, PLEASE!

Jun 20, 2005 23:31

So, I found out a couple of things today. Very emotionally disturbing (probably why I'm drinking right now ( Read more... )

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heartdancer June 21 2005, 04:03:55 UTC
they told me the same thing. i opted out.

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ariellynn June 21 2005, 06:02:12 UTC
I don't know from experience, so I can't tell you what to do. I'd love to get my hands on the guy who assualted me, but I don't know that I'd be brave enough to face him again. Honestly, I'd say it's worth a shot if you can keep him from ever hurting another boy or girl... but there is no guarantee that your statement is going to be enough. You will always regret it if you don't try, but it's going to take all your courage.

And you know we are here to help you through whatever you choose to do. I say go for it, and I'm here for you.

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sarahj526 June 21 2005, 13:41:29 UTC
Thats a big thing to go through.. but, im sure through the support of your friends and family, you could get through it.. you seem like a tough man.

*hugs*

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whymercy June 21 2005, 20:20:50 UTC
well, I think this is a big decision either way. You ask what I would do. I would do it. Why? Because I wouldn't want to have the regrets I might have it if I did not. Regardless of what happens, I would always wonder what I could have prevented had I not stepped forward. Personal to Me, I never had anyone to protect me growing up and I hope that I can do that for someone else who might be me. (not sure if that makes sense).

That being said. I know that it would be difficult to do something like this so don't just do it because of popular opinion. It's hard sometimes - thinking "what's right vs. what's right for me vs what everyone thinks I should do". However ultimately this is a decision you have to make for yourself. No one will judge you if you decide to walk away and let sleeping dogs lie. Your friends will always have your back. That's what they are there for.

I hope I made sense, sometimes I write stuff and it doesn't :(

Either way :hugs: and take good care of yourself Aaron. No matter what you do - it'll be right.

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chaoticwake June 22 2005, 04:55:58 UTC
I decided to do it. For a couple of reasons.

One, being a big thing, and perhaps a bit selfish. I want to see if I can't get some payback. See if perhaps something can't be done.

The other reason, I don't know who else he did this too since me. But if I've got the chance to stop him from doing it to anyone else in the future, I've got to at least try. I'm calling the cops tomorrow, and see what they say.

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