Jan 19, 2010 11:17
Attitude in relation to authority figures: He was raised to be respectful and polite, the typical quiet guy nextdoor type.
Perfect mate: He believes he has finally found her in his new wife, Ali, but he is not naive enough to know things won't always be perfect.
Biggest shame: Becoming an alcoholic, which he'll always be ashamed deeply of. It's often the source of internal struggle for him.
Ideal job vs. actual job: When he was younger, he had intended to follow in his Dad's footsteps and become a doctor, but it wasn't meant to be and he followed his heart to become a paramedic instead, which he adores.
First moment of childhood happiness: His Dad teaching him the Chicken Dance.
Peak romantic experience he/she is constantly trying to recreate: Not so much recreate because they are still fairly fres, but definitely keep remembering regular, would have to be when he proposed to Ali and then when they got married.
Bedrooms: He moved in with Ali, who had at the time recently moved into an apartment she inherited off a friend. Since then, they have put their marks on the place, all bedrooms are nicely decorated with big comfy beds and lots of pillows.
Refrigerator innards: It's shared between Andrew, who's a vegetarian, Ali, who is a junk food-a-holic, and a one year old, so it's a mixed bag.
Nervous tics: He rubs the back of his neck when he's nervous, and tends to be a notorious blusher when he's embarrassed. These days, now he has one, he curls his wedding ring around his finger.
Dream life: He never had many life dreams, but if he did, he is pretty sure if would come close to having the amazing wife and adopted daughter he has because they have made him feel complete for the first time in a very long time.
Biggest rival/antagonist: He doesn't really have any, but for the sake of an answer, his two cousins are often playfully pulling the piss out of him or play jokes on him, but it's an even field. All three of them have always had a playful relationship.
Biggest accomplishment he/she wishes to achieve: He loves his adopted daughter like is his own, and in fact has been her father since about four weeks after she was born. But he yearns for another child, which is a painful subject at present with his wife having two miscarriages in six months in their attempt to have another.
Favorite site of refuge or succor: His Mum's place. She lived in Boston until recently, when she moved to New York to be closer to Andrew and his new family.
Person from the past he/she doesn’t wish to bump into: Maybe a couples of exes, but no one really. He's never had distinct fallings out with anyone.
Most challenging physical act: Any time he has been ill or injured that has restricted his movement. He finds is extremely difficult to be incapacitated or sit still for too long.
Most challenging mental act: Getting sober and staying sober... it's a daily struggle.
Most challenging emotional act: Being in the car with his father that was crashed into by a drunk driver. His father died on impact and Andrew was left trapped in the wreckage beside his Dad. This occurred just before Christmas time and it was losing his father that led him to alcoholism.
paramedically