psychological "stuff"

[chavyrocks]

Last night was knitting minions night, and only Jen & Margie showed up, which was fine with me. I love those two ladies with all my heart. We got into some really deep conversations about our disappointments, difficulties, etc. in the past and now. It just brought to mind how seldom I have these kind of conversations anymore. The older I get, the

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[jenyatb]

yesyes.

the point of power is now, that's my policy. whatever happened happened and as we talked about last night, it's important to feel the feelings. and then let it go. that's why it's hard for me to even articulate my hurts sometimes. it feels like wallowing even if it only happened a short time ago! i need to work on letting myself feel it first.

i love you and love our little nest of quiet talking ladies. blessings to you for starting it all.

[chavyrocks]

Love you, too.

I was also thinking, it's like you finally "get" yourself. It's not that your faults don't keep cropping up, but there's less delay before you say "d'oh! I'm doing that again!" and less self-judgment. You just say, "oh yeah, I've decided to do something different now" and get back on track.

[roshismomma]

Its definitely all very faded for me. Very.