Figuring out past thought-traps

[chenoameg]

My 20s make so much more sense now.
I knew I didn't have social anxiety, but I responded to so many situations like people who do.

I think I was applying a fixed mindset perspective to my social skills.
I am a Kind person. Therefore I must never hurt anyone's feelings, or I will not be A Kind Person. So I must avoid all situations where I might

Comments

[kelkyag]

I hear you. Wedging on self-image issues gets really hard to untangle.