Not sure how to make this kind of post

[cherry916]

I'm not exactly sure how to put this into words since I can't even understand myself right now. I figured that maybe writing out some of my feelings will benefit me in the long run because it is going to be a struggle for me for awhile so don't be surprised if I don't show up or go on hiatus from online

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[raloria]

I'm so very sorry for your loss. When my dad passed away 10 years ago I didn't know what to do either. Take your time with all the feelings. I know for me, it was good that I was going to college at the time and it was sort of a helpful distraction. It didn't suppress all the grief, but it did help me cope in the early stages. Take care. *hugs*

[vyperdd]

So sorry for your loss. Sending my thoughts and condolences to you and your family.

Does your school have a counselor or someone you can talk to?

Take care of yourself.

*hugs*

[borgmama1of5]

I am so sorry for your loss and wish I could give you a hug in person...

[m14mouse]

I am so sorry for your loss. :(

[ayane42]

I am so sorry for your loss :(

My dad passed away 20 years ago. He had been sick for a long while and my Mom was prepared, but I had no idea and neither did my brothers and sister (I'm the oldest of 5). It was on Christmas Day, we got a call from the hospital at 4:30am to say his heart had stopped. He also had a DNR.

While my Mom was prepared for his death, she hadn't thought much beyond that, so I took charge, made arrangements for the cremation, contacting family and friends, scheduling the wake, helping my Mom and family deal with the grief of losing my Dad.

That's how I dealt with that.

*hugs* long distance