"he HAD to stop trying to pursue people and had to take a step back and focus, REALLY focus on himself, and learning to love himself... and that's what so many people need to do"
That's good advice. I think a relationship and the search for Mr. or Ms.Right is too often used as a band aid for a deeper wound. Perhaps it's because for some reason they don't feel happy as an individual, so they think they need someone to be complete, but I often ask, shouldn't you be complete by yourself? Shouldn't the someone special you find add to or compliment who you are rather than make you whole?
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That's good advice. I think a relationship and the search for Mr. or Ms.Right is too often used as a band aid for a deeper wound. Perhaps it's because for some reason they don't feel happy as an individual, so they think they need someone to be complete, but I often ask, shouldn't you be complete by yourself? Shouldn't the someone special you find add to or compliment who you are rather than make you whole?
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