What's Behind Door #3?
What's with this seemingly more common trend of people ending and restarting relationships at the drop of a hat? Let me give you a hypothetical example. No, the names aren't real.
"Tom and Peter are together, and have been so for at least two years. They share an apartment/house together. One day, Tom meets Harold. Tom and Harold immediately hit it ( Read more... )
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i just think that with your cynical and confident eye, you nip it in the bud before it can even happen....giving you the feeling that you've been a lone for a while, while in reality, you've sidestepped many a mess.
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if it don't want you.. you don't need it,
and you sure as hell don't need no confused mo-fos in your life.
don't lose hope.
keep being realistic.. but leave a bit of room for optimism.
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It's unfortunate but many people define relationships as "what makes me feel good right now." They're unwilling (and in some cases unable) to deal with the difficult times, so they bail.
Relationships are a lot (A LOT!) of work, but the efforts are worth it. You may have to kiss many frogs in the process.
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The only conclusion I've come to worth while however is the
fact that most people aren't ready for/can't fully commit to
anything of actual seriousness. They'd rather have fun when
they desire and fuck the responsible decisions. Of course it
does seem easier this way, but it won't always work.
Sadly my escapades through out life put your "Tom/Peter/Harold"
story to shame. But, at least I experienced life, eh? One of us
had to be the wild card that is capable of making a parent regret
the decision of children all together, otherwise it isn't fun. ;)
Also, "Harold" is a very boring name. Be more creative next time, champ!
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