i'm just trying to change the mindset from 'they don't want me; nobody wants me' to 'they didn't come out? fine, they don't deserve MY attention. I'm too good for them.'
God, I can only imagine how aggravating it is. The idea of ever having to dip the toe back into the dating pool, after being in a relationship for a long time, can be both exciting and enervating.
PS - One thing I'm envious of, when it comes to people being single, is the freedom to make ANY decision you want. I wouldn't give up my BF for anything, but I know, for instance, if I were to do grad school, or wanted to go teach English abroad, it would be a devastatingly hard decision to make because it would mean leaving my love for a long time. It wouldn't necessarily prevent me from pursuing my dreams, but it sure would make it really really hard emotionally.
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i'm just trying to change the mindset from 'they don't want me; nobody wants me' to 'they didn't come out? fine, they don't deserve MY attention. I'm too good for them.'
but that's me.
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Chin up, lady.
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