i know you are a very religious person (its a very positive quality in you in my opinion). but i've often wondered just how religious you are. like what is your view on pre-marital sex? do you feel comfortable reading about it in fics for instance?
sorry if this falls into the "too personal" box. i'm honestly just a curious cat. ;)
Pre-marital sex for myself personally, is a no. But not for the reasons you may think. I think religion actually has less to do with it than heart reasons. I'm a huge believer that sex isn't just 'sex' and therefore, I'm not about to have sex with someone unless I am completely comfortable with that person and that often means a stable friendship before relationship. Marriage to me is ol big sign of commitment, sex to me, is a sign of (heart) commitment, and so the two sort of go hand in hand.
I'm ok with reading about it mostly, because it's not about me, I'm not overly concerned about it. I quite often appreciate it, especially if it involves two chraracters that I'm pretty heavily hooked on, because of what sex resembles to me, I think it's a beautiful thing. I'm not into reading it just for the sake of reading it though, if that makes any sense.
Call me old fashioned and a romantic, unless there's heart involved, it doesn't interest me lol
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sorry if this falls into the "too personal" box. i'm honestly just a curious cat. ;)
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Pre-marital sex for myself personally, is a no. But not for the reasons you may think. I think religion actually has less to do with it than heart reasons. I'm a huge believer that sex isn't just 'sex' and therefore, I'm not about to have sex with someone unless I am completely comfortable with that person and that often means a stable friendship before relationship.
Marriage to me is ol big sign of commitment, sex to me, is a sign of (heart) commitment, and so the two sort of go hand in hand.
I'm ok with reading about it mostly, because it's not about me, I'm not overly concerned about it. I quite often appreciate it, especially if it involves two chraracters that I'm pretty heavily hooked on, because of what sex resembles to me, I think it's a beautiful thing. I'm not into reading it just for the sake of reading it though, if that makes any sense.
Call me old fashioned and a romantic, unless there's heart involved, it doesn't interest me lol
I hope that answers your questions :)
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