I find this incredibly interesting. I can barely imagine it.
Personally, though attractive, I'm horrible at appearing sexual and coming onto people, I have none of that ability whatsoever and have no idea how people learn it. I'm very impressed by people who know it all so accurately that they can make a living off of it. I like this post, your breakdown :)
The way I learned was from something someone told me when I was younger. Confidence, even if you have to fake it at first, will pull attention to you. If you fake confidence, you eventually will gain true confidence. And it only gets stronger and better from there :)
Don't ever think that you're not attractive. Everyone is; you just have to find out how to "market" it to society. I have to because of my job but overall, physical looks matter least.
And yes, confidence is the key! I've seen oooooooold strippers make loooots of money because of it.
It sounds like you are finding your niche. Good job with that. I take it you work in a nude club (hence the reason you throw your panties) am I correct?
Anyway, I hope you dont mind but I want to throw out one tidbit of advice Every dancer should appreciate some critiquing: Please dont be one of those dancers who "spreads pink"
By spread pink I mean literally everyone in the club can see the inside of your p****. All you do is cheapen yourself. If you are playing the seductive role, be seductive. You can slowly open/close your legs, or rub on your legs, but opening them so wide everyone on the ledge can see if just plain tacky.
Also, the whole finger in your mouth bit...try to cut that to a minimum. Stages, money and poles are nasty. Your hands come in contact with that all night.
Ok, other than that, lol I'm done giving my motherly advice. Continue to do great things with your craft. Any questions you know to hit me up!
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Personally, though attractive, I'm horrible at appearing sexual and coming onto people, I have none of that ability whatsoever and have no idea how people learn it. I'm very impressed by people who know it all so accurately that they can make a living off of it. I like this post, your breakdown :)
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And yes, confidence is the key! I've seen oooooooold strippers make loooots of money because of it.
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Anyway, I hope you dont mind but I want to throw out one tidbit of advice Every dancer should appreciate some critiquing: Please dont be one of those dancers who "spreads pink"
By spread pink I mean literally everyone in the club can see the inside of your p****. All you do is cheapen yourself. If you are playing the seductive role, be seductive. You can slowly open/close your legs, or rub on your legs, but opening them so wide everyone on the ledge can see if just plain tacky.
Also, the whole finger in your mouth bit...try to cut that to a minimum. Stages, money and poles are nasty. Your hands come in contact with that all night.
Ok, other than that, lol I'm done giving my motherly advice. Continue to do great things with your craft. Any questions you know to hit me up!
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Yes I work in a nude club and thanks again!
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