Wow.
A real live date...
I went on a real live, gentlemanly, first date, kinda blind date last night...
So We met of coarse online through personal ads on Butch-femme.com. Spoke only a few times and emailed a few times and decided to try each other out.
I had two plans a yes it's raining plan and a not raining plan. So it was raining like crazy and I stopped to get the first umbrella I have ever owned so when I walked her from her door to the car she would stay dry. So I meant to pick her up at 730pm and get there early but know better than to go to a femme door early, I wait until 725pm and go for it, she was still getting ready (just brushing her teeth).
Walk her to the car with my rain gear flowing, and then we drove to a nearby Cuban rest. I picked for it is not usually busy and always dimly lit- so we could have nice atmosphere and good food-it was also only a very short walk to get in -therefore rain did not matter too much.
So she told me what and how she wanted her food and I ordered for her and myself of coarse.
We talked and laughed and talked and ate.
She teased me in regards to whether she would go out with me again-and in the end when I asked 'oh so politely, she said "she'd love to".
So we get back to her place and I ask her if I can walk her to the door, "yes please". OK! So I walk her to the door and ask for a hug and she kissed me right cheek, and then the left, then I kissed her cheek and she turned her head and we had made out for a bit -we kiss well together and that was nice, she turned her head in a non-verbal gesture to kiss her neck - So i did ( who me?) and then she got all silly and stepped back and said she would see me Sat. and giggled. It was nice. I was really nervous at first -not sure why I am not normally so.
I had a nice time and have spent much the day thinking of her and her smile and the way she felt in my arms.
I think I will go for a nice museum/ garden / walk for Sat. If she does not mind doing something during the day and then we maybe could have dinner. If she wants to keep it at night-I will have to figure out something-I so dont want to do the typical diinner and a movie deal-It's lame and I dont like that -I want new and different and also time to talk and you cant very well talk at a movie.
So there it is a real official date.
had to happen...Woohoo! and a good one at that.
now just to bid my time with work until the wknd and I am set.
later daze-dream big!
I went on a real live, gentlemanly, first date, kinda blind date last night...
So We met of coarse online through personal ads on Butch-femme.com. Spoke only a few times and emailed a few times and decided to try each other out.
I had two plans a yes it's raining plan and a not raining plan. So it was raining like crazy and I stopped to get the first umbrella I have ever owned so when I walked her from her door to the car she would stay dry. So I meant to pick her up at 730pm and get there early but know better than to go to a femme door early, I wait until 725pm and go for it, she was still getting ready (just brushing her teeth).
Walk her to the car with my rain gear flowing, and then we drove to a nearby Cuban rest. I picked for it is not usually busy and always dimly lit- so we could have nice atmosphere and good food-it was also only a very short walk to get in -therefore rain did not matter too much.
So she told me what and how she wanted her food and I ordered for her and myself of coarse.
We talked and laughed and talked and ate.
She teased me in regards to whether she would go out with me again-and in the end when I asked 'oh so politely, she said "she'd love to".
So we get back to her place and I ask her if I can walk her to the door, "yes please". OK! So I walk her to the door and ask for a hug and she kissed me right cheek, and then the left, then I kissed her cheek and she turned her head and we had made out for a bit -we kiss well together and that was nice, she turned her head in a non-verbal gesture to kiss her neck - So i did ( who me?) and then she got all silly and stepped back and said she would see me Sat. and giggled. It was nice. I was really nervous at first -not sure why I am not normally so.
I had a nice time and have spent much the day thinking of her and her smile and the way she felt in my arms.
I think I will go for a nice museum/ garden / walk for Sat. If she does not mind doing something during the day and then we maybe could have dinner. If she wants to keep it at night-I will have to figure out something-I so dont want to do the typical diinner and a movie deal-It's lame and I dont like that -I want new and different and also time to talk and you cant very well talk at a movie.
So there it is a real official date.
had to happen...Woohoo! and a good one at that.
now just to bid my time with work until the wknd and I am set.
later daze-dream big!