infidelity

[chrisfarleyfan]

Ladies, do you think that there is a huge difference between a guy cheating on you by making out with someone else and by having sex with someone else? Both of them show that he's not faithful. Would you be that much more angry if you found out that he had sex with someone else than if he had made out with someone else? I'm not sure. I think I'd

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[testing_my_will]

I don't know.
I think I'd be WAY pissed either way. But sex would be worse for me.
Considering my bf and I aren't having sex until married, um yeah. I guess if I we had sex and he did it with someone else. But in today's society, people don't put any value in sex. They just do it with anyone they date. And it's not special anymore.

So in the end, I think sex is worse.

[chrisfarleyfan]

Good call! I think that sex is still valued by some people. I hope. I'm actually not all that sure anymore. Whatev. People should do what makes them happy I guess. Thanks for replying!

[crypticclaret]

Well, there is no doubt that I would be furious and getting rid of him no matter what.

BUT in my opinion, it wouldn't be that I would be angrier if he had sex with someone else rather than made out with them...I would be more devastated. I mean think about it, you make out with someone, you can walk away with no real baggage, but if you have sex with someone- there's an attachment, there's way more intimacy, and most importantly uhh...there are STD's.
If you sleep with someone else, then go back and sleep with your significant other, you are not only going to hurt them emotionally but you're putting their health and maybe their LIFE at risk.

So yeah... to me, if you cheat on your partner by having sex, you are a horrific piece of crap. The only way you can save yourself from me wanting to murder you is basically to admit to it right away- don't go and sleep with whomever you're dating and bring them into that.

...Can you tell I've been in that situation? haha.