Getting a Divorce / Seperation and Getting Focused.

[chrismsx]

There would have been a point in my life where I wouldn't of waited this long to share this kind of news. In fact there was a point where this journal would have chronicled every milestone leading up to this decision but obviously things have changed a bit. I don't even think half the people that followed me back then maintain their accounts.  I

Comments

[jette]

In the same boat, good luck to you! You should consider making the separation legal to protect each other from your respective debt.

[chrismsx]

What do you mean? We're both paying our loans.

[chrismsx]

Neither of us has any debt. I paid off her credit cards when we got married because I didn't want to deal with that crap haha.

[jette]

If she was bad at credit before, she can be bad again. Remember she is not your partner anymore. You don't know what she is capable of now. She could easily decide to run up her cards and leave you on the hook. Also. Dude. This and all your separation posts should be friend only and filtered. Protect yourself.

[serendipitous13]

I'm sorry to hear that you are going through this.

[coconut_theory]

Sorry you're going through this. :\

[scaramoucher]

I'm sorry :-/

Good luck finding a new place.

[mawgry]

aw. well this sucks. The hardest thing I have found in relationships is knowing that no matter what you think is good, or what you want, it means nothing unless its both of you. You are a trooper for how well you are handling it though.

And you don't seem thaaaaaaaaaaaat nerdy. haha.