why

[christine_mass]

some people harbor shit from 20 years ago...what the hell purpose does that serve to be bitter over shit that was done that long ago. I just do not get it. Its like hell this happened long ago and a person cannot change in that time? Also when someone is so damn negative that you dread to talk with them, yeah life is not meant to be a cake walk

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[lenzart]

I've known many like that too.

[christine_mass]

its like what the hell do you do? Stop talking to the person because you have changed and want to think about your life and which way your going. I dunno I am conflicted on what to do...I have tried changing the subject with this person to something more neutral and it reverts back to the bitterness and such. I dont see the world through rosy colored glasses but is there not something to be happy about. I could go on for hours about this....grr......

[lenzart]

Well...I guess the first step is to lead by example keep on the sunny side (without being too overbearing). But at some point, it could be time to break loose. Being around too much negativity isn't good either.

[christine_mass]

yeah I am thinking the same Len..maybe just actually kinda be on the down low. I hope something enters her life which will make it better or hope she will make an effort to maker her life better but, I dunno. Time will tell!