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opaloctober in chubbychicks

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Jun 01, 2009 02:48

I can't ever say that i've been a thin girl. Even in the 5th grade, I weighed a140lbs. My main size throught highschool was a size 16-18, and once I graduated I was considerably less active. No more dance team, nomore marching band, and I have a lot more time on my hands to eat and snack, and my freshman year in college, I met my fiance. I was even ( Read more... )

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theravensclaw May 31 2009, 08:05:26 UTC

wow if a guy said that to me i would slap him in the face. Do it for you and then leave his sorry ass and find a real man who appreciates you

mastermindsgirl May 31 2009, 08:20:46 UTC

He's a fuckass. If you want to lose weight, do it for yourself, so you feel healthy. Don't lose it because of what he thinks.

apeystar May 31 2009, 08:35:02 UTC

Wow, I know you're not looking for relationship advice...but no one should ever talk to you like that.

Seriously... katmiaow May 31 2009, 10:11:29 UTC

your fiancee sounds like a douchebag. Ditch him before it's too late. Seriously. If he's willing to put down an ultimatum like that, it's unlikely it would work out.

Find someone who will love you for who you are. I am also trying to lose weight, but it is in conjunction with my partner because we want to be healthier for each other and ourselves, not because someone said they would break it off with us unless we did.

Re: Seriously... hopita May 31 2009, 15:08:14 UTC

This.

My partner and I are both trying to lose weight. If he said anything like this to me I would immediately drop 250 lbs.: HIM.

Any guy who says "you'd be perfect if only you were different" is not a man I would recommend marrying.

Re: Seriously... starlightpunk May 31 2009, 16:04:01 UTC

lmfao : If he said anything like this to me I would immediately drop 250 lbs.: HIM.

win!!!!

AMY

Re: Seriously... pink_siamese May 31 2009, 18:05:38 UTC

I second the absolute awesomeness of this remark.

badvibe May 31 2009, 11:06:03 UTC

Your partner says things that he knows hurt you.

That is not okay ever.

Think about if this situation was reversed. Would you say those sort of things to him? If not, why not? Now, why doesn't he apply those reason to himself.

I know there's not really a lot I can say here. But if that's you in your icon, I think you are a hottie exactly as you are and you deserve someone who loves you and wants to be with you no matter what, not someone who will only be with you if you conform.