That epiphany thing

[chucklemagne]

Here it is, the long-awaited (and long-winded) explanation of my recent life-changing moment of realization and clarity

Comments

[somedisco]

And while I may sympathize that they're struggling, ultimately it is their struggle

that is a fair point. your friend makes a good point at the start for sure!

[fallen42]

Wow, that's quite a shift in perspective. I'm glad to see that you are figuring out how to 'let go' in such situations. I had to learn how to deal with a milder case of the same problem of having trouble letting go, and I know how difficult it can be.