Are like none of you getting my comments or something? What's with the silence? I've written a couple o' good entries and commented a mucho. Comment back you silly whabbits!
I had to comment here on your last public post, because apparently you took me off your friends list. I was debating on just saying nothing and deleting you as well, but I thought better of it and decided to try and resolve this with you. I didn't mean to offend you about your friend. I actually didn't even know she was your friend, I just saw the picture and had no clue who she was. Had I known that, I would have said nothing and kept my negative opinion to myself. I don't feel there's a need for either of us to be hostile. Afterall, we are adults and should therefore act like adults. There was a better way for you to let me know that I upset you so much without becomming extremely rude and ignorant. I am not jealous of your friend whatsoever, I don't even know her. I can't be jealous of someone I don't even know. I don't find her attreactive and that's that. I am very secure with my looks and don't feel that the amount of attention I receive or don't receive has anything to do with anything. I realize that I said some things about
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You over stepped the borderline in what would be appropriate to say and what would not. There are ways to get your point across w/o being insultive for no good reason. I can not believe it would not occur to you to bit your tongue in consideration to what you said. I mean, how old are you?
The same would go for you too. Like you said, there are better ways to get a point across without being insultive. Not that it's a good excuse, but I said what I said because I felt that you were baiting me. Your post asked if anyone thought she was hot or something along those lines. I had no clue who she was, but I gave my opinion, only to have you come at me calling me insane and asking what planet I was from. Then when I went further into explaining my reasons for not finding her attractive, you put me down left right and centre. Just as you ask me how old I am, I could ask you the same thing for how you resonded to me both times. When I first gave my opinion, I wasn't trying to be rude or ignorant. Everyone has different tastes. We were both in the wrong in how we reacted to each other. I may have stepped over the line in what to say and what not to say, we both did. I've appologized many times and now I'm done appologizing. If I had known she was a friend, I wouldn't have said anything.
Unfortunately computers aren't great at conveying the way someone is expressing themselves. When I asked you "what planet you were from?" and to explain your reasoning I was not giving you the floor to say whatever was on the top of your mind. I expected you to respond at most with something like she just isn't my taste. NOT with insult upon insult about my friend. And had you read more than a couple of my journal entries prior to that one you would've very clearly KNOWN she was my friend. But even if she were NOT my friend, there is no way what you said was 'okay'. How can you even wonder why I 'put you down left right and center'??? You called my friend a slut and presumed she was a strung out native druggie! How is that NOT insultive. Really if you can't understand that I have nothing else to say. Anyone, and everyone that knows about this little scuffle that we had has agreed with me on this.
"We both did."
Don't presume to speak for me. I'm not appologizing for sticking up for my friends.
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"We both did."
Don't presume to speak for me. I'm not appologizing for sticking up for my friends.
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yeahhh you don't know me but we are on the same queer poet community.. sooo yeah...
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