Sometimes I wonder why I bother. This is my third party, and for the third time, only three people showed up. At least the first time it was three people and my roomate
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I always thought you were really good at making friends. For some reason I thought you were down in old Miami having the time of your life...sorry to hear you're feeling down : ( I don't really have any tips for you either since I'm horrible at making friends, and even worse at keeping them : / Good luck though!
oh and I'll def buy you some posters to decorate your mountain cave walls or maybe some chalk - the good kind from the art store - and you can do some cave drawings : D
Honestly, thats how parties are, I'm pretty sure. No one's party I've ever been to has had as many people as said they were coming. I think the only way to do it is invite waaaaay more people than you actually want there. I mean like if you want ten or fifty than actually personally invite like thirty. Or more. And plus, once you are out of college and living in a city with a bunch of adults people are probably less into partying and the likes. I wish you lived here and we could go out every night together and you could get to know some of the lovely twenty five year old girls that I know. :/ Mostly thats just hanging out at Insomniac's like every single night though. Last party I threw had like ten people and I had to practically ship them in. And this is me living in the same place for the past like ten years. So in a new town? What are you going to do? I wouldn't chalk it up as a personal fault. Friday night I was talking to Zack Blanquer and he had nothing to do and was all pissed. While you don't know Zack, I'll tell you that he
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You don't want to be a hermit. Your cave would be waaaay more fun with me in it. ;)
I'm gonna agree that no one ever gets as many people to come as they invite. The problem is definitely not you. You are amazing and wonderful (and totally sexy). Maybe all the girls are secretly upset that you invited them to a big party when they were hoping for a hot date, so they just sat home and moped and pined away for you. They lose.
On the bright side, you had a really good time hanging out with 3 new friends. That's awesome, and fun, and a great amount of progress towards having an overwhelmingly busy social life. You rock! (Darn. Does that mean you're not going to move into a cave with me? That sounded fun.)
I hate to agree with everyone but they are right. Most party planning books say figure that a third of you invited people will come. Actually though, three is not that bad of a party, more than 5 or 6 and it is hard to host.
I am sad Jonas that you are not making as many friends as you need in Miami. CLO was a very good place for meeting people, and I also miss my many friendship from there. However, you are likable maybe you need to join, community theater, SCA or a Church or something.
Speaking of parties does anyone here want to come to my annual New Years Day Party?
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or maybe some chalk - the good kind from the art store - and you can do some cave drawings : D
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And I cannot wait to see Brand New. :D
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I'm gonna agree that no one ever gets as many people to come as they invite. The problem is definitely not you. You are amazing and wonderful (and totally sexy). Maybe all the girls are secretly upset that you invited them to a big party when they were hoping for a hot date, so they just sat home and moped and pined away for you. They lose.
On the bright side, you had a really good time hanging out with 3 new friends. That's awesome, and fun, and a great amount of progress towards having an overwhelmingly busy social life. You rock! (Darn. Does that mean you're not going to move into a cave with me? That sounded fun.)
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I hate to agree with everyone but they are right. Most party planning books say figure that a third of you invited people will come. Actually though, three is not that bad of a party, more than 5 or 6 and it is hard to host.
I am sad Jonas that you are not making as many friends as you need in Miami. CLO was a very good place for meeting people, and I also miss my many friendship from there. However, you are likable maybe you need to join, community theater, SCA or a Church or something.
Speaking of parties does anyone here want to come to my annual New Years Day Party?
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