Welcome to Erin's pity party

[claricia]

Stuart is absolutely losing it. He is no longer able to cope with much in our lives and I'm at the point of no longer being able to cope with him not coping. I have spent the past 5 years as his bouncy little cheerleader (ok, not always bouncy) as we've gone through some really CRAPPY ups and downs and I just don't have it in me any more

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[the_aspie_zoo]

Aww, hon, I'm sorry things are so stressful for you and Stuart. I find myself in a slightly similar situation (nothing bad, just, well seasonal stress...and my mil is coming for a very brief visit tomorrow night--I haven't seen her in four years and my house is a disaster area).

{{{{double xtra hugs for both of you and some for Clinton, too! }}}}

aspie zoo,
aka Ladykatt

Trying for coherency here

[nicky78]

You have the strength and the will to cope cause you need to. You may not feel like it right now.

You are one of the strongest people I know in my life. Strong on many levels.

Some people would have crumpled and given up on life after only going through half the things you and Stuart have gone through.

Hold onto that very tiny grain of faith that things will AND are going to get better.

This will sound strange, but try and stop worrying about money. It will work out, not the way you want it too, but, it will work out.
Having been doing some energy work and meditating on why things keep going crazy for you guys I get the same thing I kept getting for me back at the beginning of summer.

Apparently we both need to learn to worry less about things we cannot control (lack of money coming in) and deal with the here and now on a day to day basis.

I will be home by 6pmish all this week if you wanna phone and talk! I could always come visit too.

*BIG HUG*