Sex apparently comes before talent.
Because I am female with big boobs and I tend to SMILE even when I'm nervous as hell... guys seem to take this as " ooooo shiney".
Really, fuckin' sick of this shit.
The guy that was all " I'm in it for the art! You haz awesome art! I've been looking for someone like you for years!"
First off- tried to get a date- then backed out.... Then calls me up and says he doesn't want me to do a tank for the bike.... instead wants me to do a guitar.... -.-... then this last phone call was " ... I'm getting out of the buissness for good! ... oh you found out I was married. What? Did you think I was hitting on you? I was just FLIRTing! You shouldn't be so mad at me! Tee hee!"
*head-desk*
This after spending almost TWO WEEKS of texting me on my fuckin' phone everyday. Wanting to know 'who I am' and what I like... commenting how he looked at my ass, likes what he sees, and that he found me sexy.
*HEAD-DESK*
and .... this is from a married guy... because I was a clever Kat and was kinda skivved out and talked to a co-worker because this guy was really... agressive... in his advances... found out he was married, and that he was 'happily married' at that... ( after three divorces? I have my doubts as to the longevity of the situation :p call me pessimistic and judgemental... I am... -.-;) and that he flirted with EVERYTHING with tits and a cootch.
WHEN YOU TELL SOMEONE THAT THERE ASS IS NICE- IT'S HITTING ON. FLIRTING AND HITTING ON ARE THE SAME.
It's not funny -ESPECIALLY- when said object of attention tells you up front in the first oh ... TEN WORDS that that shit makes her uncomfortable! That it's unwanted- and rude.
Art my ass ( literally?)
I'm just pissed that this shit effects something that *I* care deeply about... Fuck relationships. I love art, I like it when people are interested in art. I'd love all the different areas of art, and getting a chance to meet people. I rather people look at my ART than my BREASTS k thnx. Trying to cover your screw up because I found out that you were married and NOT just divorced is real shitty... I could care less as long as he had a fuckin' legit job for me. As long as he wasn't some creeper using my art to try and get in my pants. I worked in the butcher dept for crying out loud... and had to deal with " why aren't you married?" "So what sex are you interested in?""do you like guys or girls?" and all manner of shit that no... I really shouldn't have ever HAD to... but it seems to come to the territory of small minded men who think with their little heads....
having also had co-workers convinced that ' no no ... he's legit!" when asked made it worse... :p no wonder he couldn't find someone to do the detailed shit for him ARGH
ANGRY KAT IS ANGRY.
This happening right after such a high last weekend... :p stupid people.
Other news:
You really want to hear me rant? Get me on the subject of TSA. No really.
I don't have a goddamn CHOICE in this matter... I can't just " not fly" because my SON is flying. He -HAS- to court-ordered. And there's EVERYTHING wrong with Chicago, and the TSA. First off- med results on the body scanners are -inconclusive- ... you can't say they're safe because they haven't been approved yet.... but they're in use! Let alone the nakkid bodies of nakkid that you are seeing all day... and granted *I* can't seem to find a legit sex appeal in this... but CHILDREN ARE NOT PHOTOGRAPHED NUDE in *ANY* situation... because even a DOCTOR with years sunk in a PHD has to have a legit reason for the intrusion, by x-ray, or MRI or SOMETHING.... and that requires the LOL PARENTS PERMISSION.
Yeah, I'm pissed.
All I will say about the body check if you opt out? .... is that I will punch whoever gropes my kid. That's that. You fondle his junk and I will take my boot and put it so far up your ass you'll be blowing shoelaces out of your nose.
no-one touches my kid.
So we're going in ninja style stripped down to our skivies so that you can SEE we couldn't hide anything( long johns)... I'm so very very tempted... to find a leotard or something of the sort- and wear it through the line.... I'm -FAT- and very self concious... -.- but to make a statement? Yeah... that they're going to touch all that, even if they can SEE there's nothing on? Enjoy the flab assholes! Won't be able to hide how they touch somebody that's left nothing to the imagination...
Yeah ... there are lots of words here.
I've written people, and sent my concern-mail off. TSA is out of whack...
They don't do this in the countries that the terrorists attack DAILY, they don't do this IN ANY NATION at all.... WTF United States? WTF?
Really, fuckin' sick of this shit.
The guy that was all " I'm in it for the art! You haz awesome art! I've been looking for someone like you for years!"
First off- tried to get a date- then backed out.... Then calls me up and says he doesn't want me to do a tank for the bike.... instead wants me to do a guitar.... -.-... then this last phone call was " ... I'm getting out of the buissness for good! ... oh you found out I was married. What? Did you think I was hitting on you? I was just FLIRTing! You shouldn't be so mad at me! Tee hee!"
*head-desk*
This after spending almost TWO WEEKS of texting me on my fuckin' phone everyday. Wanting to know 'who I am' and what I like... commenting how he looked at my ass, likes what he sees, and that he found me sexy.
*HEAD-DESK*
and .... this is from a married guy... because I was a clever Kat and was kinda skivved out and talked to a co-worker because this guy was really... agressive... in his advances... found out he was married, and that he was 'happily married' at that... ( after three divorces? I have my doubts as to the longevity of the situation :p call me pessimistic and judgemental... I am... -.-;) and that he flirted with EVERYTHING with tits and a cootch.
WHEN YOU TELL SOMEONE THAT THERE ASS IS NICE- IT'S HITTING ON. FLIRTING AND HITTING ON ARE THE SAME.
It's not funny -ESPECIALLY- when said object of attention tells you up front in the first oh ... TEN WORDS that that shit makes her uncomfortable! That it's unwanted- and rude.
Art my ass ( literally?)
I'm just pissed that this shit effects something that *I* care deeply about... Fuck relationships. I love art, I like it when people are interested in art. I'd love all the different areas of art, and getting a chance to meet people. I rather people look at my ART than my BREASTS k thnx. Trying to cover your screw up because I found out that you were married and NOT just divorced is real shitty... I could care less as long as he had a fuckin' legit job for me. As long as he wasn't some creeper using my art to try and get in my pants. I worked in the butcher dept for crying out loud... and had to deal with " why aren't you married?" "So what sex are you interested in?""do you like guys or girls?" and all manner of shit that no... I really shouldn't have ever HAD to... but it seems to come to the territory of small minded men who think with their little heads....
having also had co-workers convinced that ' no no ... he's legit!" when asked made it worse... :p no wonder he couldn't find someone to do the detailed shit for him ARGH
ANGRY KAT IS ANGRY.
This happening right after such a high last weekend... :p stupid people.
Other news:
You really want to hear me rant? Get me on the subject of TSA. No really.
I don't have a goddamn CHOICE in this matter... I can't just " not fly" because my SON is flying. He -HAS- to court-ordered. And there's EVERYTHING wrong with Chicago, and the TSA. First off- med results on the body scanners are -inconclusive- ... you can't say they're safe because they haven't been approved yet.... but they're in use! Let alone the nakkid bodies of nakkid that you are seeing all day... and granted *I* can't seem to find a legit sex appeal in this... but CHILDREN ARE NOT PHOTOGRAPHED NUDE in *ANY* situation... because even a DOCTOR with years sunk in a PHD has to have a legit reason for the intrusion, by x-ray, or MRI or SOMETHING.... and that requires the LOL PARENTS PERMISSION.
Yeah, I'm pissed.
All I will say about the body check if you opt out? .... is that I will punch whoever gropes my kid. That's that. You fondle his junk and I will take my boot and put it so far up your ass you'll be blowing shoelaces out of your nose.
no-one touches my kid.
So we're going in ninja style stripped down to our skivies so that you can SEE we couldn't hide anything( long johns)... I'm so very very tempted... to find a leotard or something of the sort- and wear it through the line.... I'm -FAT- and very self concious... -.- but to make a statement? Yeah... that they're going to touch all that, even if they can SEE there's nothing on? Enjoy the flab assholes! Won't be able to hide how they touch somebody that's left nothing to the imagination...
Yeah ... there are lots of words here.
I've written people, and sent my concern-mail off. TSA is out of whack...
They don't do this in the countries that the terrorists attack DAILY, they don't do this IN ANY NATION at all.... WTF United States? WTF?