i'm on summer vacation, and i don't have anything to do. i almost never get to go online and do things like update my journal, check my email, or go check out gaia. i can't stand it
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my sister got married to her husband 2 months after meeting him. they've been happily married for 5 years ever since. of course, i don't think she had doubts like you did.
that's encouraging. thanks. were you the one who was talking about homosexuality being a sin when i first met you on lj? if you were, do you really believe it? can i talk to you about it some time? (and no, i'm not asking just so i can argue about it. i'm curious about whether or not it really is and want to hear opinions and reasons)
Well, I don't think it's weird that you're already planning my marriage. I mean, Sarah and I were only going out for about a month when we got engaged.... And now it's been about 7 months.
But I fully support your stand on sex. I think you and Doug should have a sound talk about your principles, however, before you actually get married. I think things can still go well with you two. I mean, a relationship is like a patchwork quilt. As you put the pieces together, you sometimes miss a stitch and have to fix it. It's going to be a bit akward for a bit, but if you two just sit down, talk about it, and agree that you're not going to break up, but you're not going to continue the sexual pattern you two have had, then maybe it'll be a little easier.
that helps a lot. thanks. and good luck with you and sarah. i hope you never have issues like this..even though i think most people do. thanks again for your help. bye!
i don't have a problem with sex before marriage, i think that it's done with love and respect is more important, but i understand what you mean about it taking you away from God. sex can be like a drug addiction and end up pushing everything else to the side and you end up feeling disconnected and hollow. an idea would be to make time where you focus on love and cuddling without it being sexual.
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Well, I don't think it's weird that you're already planning my marriage. I mean, Sarah and I were only going out for about a month when we got engaged.... And now it's been about 7 months.
But I fully support your stand on sex. I think you and Doug should have a sound talk about your principles, however, before you actually get married. I think things can still go well with you two. I mean, a relationship is like a patchwork quilt. As you put the pieces together, you sometimes miss a stitch and have to fix it. It's going to be a bit akward for a bit, but if you two just sit down, talk about it, and agree that you're not going to break up, but you're not going to continue the sexual pattern you two have had, then maybe it'll be a little easier.
But, then again, who am I to talk about sex?
I hope that helps!
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